theres a very nice, very pretty girl that i know from school.... and her friends have told me she likes me.
we're friends and sit at the same lunch table, but she doesnt really talk to me a lot. i start the conversations and she'll give like one word answers. people always complain about that problem.... I WANT THAT PROBLEM..... how do i get her to talk more?
Answers:
1. Talk about something shes interested in
2. ask her questions about herself, ppl like tlaking bout themsleves. Also give her compliments
3. i bet that's only because she's shy now (she reminds me of myself when I was in high school)... get to know her don't force the friendship or connection.
let it happen...slowly.
if you want to get her to talk, maybe you should
ask her something about what you
know she'll respond to (favorites, classes, etc)
be casual around her ... or rather, ...yourself.
and maybe she feels uncomfortable showing
anything because she fears rejection...maybe she
has no clue you have mutual interest...
hope this helps.
good luck
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