my ex and i still like each other and i just love him so much. but i'm not very popular at all at school and i get teased and made fun of a lot. his friends don't really like me and none of them like the way i look very much. they say i have a good body, but not a good face =[ but he looks at me like i'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen and he talks to me like he's only got one more day to live. why me? i know i should be happy, but he's so out of my league. he's VERY popular, cute and funny and charming and really sweet. he's outgoing and smooth. i'm a walking disaster. i mean, he should like my best friend: she has perfect hair, the perfect tall, thin, model-like body, a gorgeous face and awesome grades. she IS perfect. or he should like someone who's actually pretty or popular. i mean, i'm embarrased FOR him. this stuff just doesn't happen to me. guys don't like me. people don't like me. wtf is wrong with him? part of the reason i don't want to get back together again
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
is because i'm at such the lower end of the food chain and he's at the top. he's perfect. and i'm incredibly insecure about everything so i can't even imagine what people would say. i don't think i could handle all the negative attention. what's wrong with me? and are his hormones slow or something? who would like me? i know it sounds i'm being an attention-whore, but i seriously wonder... what does he see in me that he doesn't see in the other girls who are actually perfect or at least partly-together?
2. 8 hours ago
and how can i get rid of this feeling like i don't measure up? all his stupid friends make me feel inferior without even trying.
3. thats a GREAT thing! it means he likes you for who you are and not just what you have to offer. he is a loy more mature than most guys. you seem to have a low self esteem. just be happy that you have such a great and mature guy. popularity is STUPID. ive had to deal with all these stupid polularity contest things ever since i got into high school. take my advice, stay with him! dont leave him because you think you arent good enough for him. nothing is wrong with him. he sees you for WHO you are, not just that your a girl. stop worrying about not being popular or pretty enough for him. good guys like him dont care about sh*t like that. dont compare yourself with your friend. he chose you over her for a reason. you probably have 10 times the personality that she does. his friends are just jealous that he has such a great girl and they are all lonely or with stupid whores.
4. Crumbs girl why are you worried.?Does it matter.?You obviously have something that he can't find in another girl, there is something that makes you the girl for him.If I knew someone cared about me like that I would not be asking why i'd just be on cloud 9.... really appreciate him.!..You have problems with confidence and slef esteem theres nothinh wrong with him, its the viewpoint you have of yourself, obviously you have something to offer him.This is genuine and I would use this as a positive thing and a confidence boost rather than looking at the situation negativley.
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