everyday just random guys in school will stare at me and i think a lot of guys prolly like me like me. but im still boyfriendless! so what's the deal? will i ever get a real boyfriend? or even go on a date. i'm like almost 16 and have't had a boyfriend yet!
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1. guys star all the time it doesnt mean that they like you. if they start talking to you and hanging out with you then theres more chances of them likeing you.
2. Don't worry, enough guys will eventually come and stick their private parts in you.
3. well you need to aproach the boy. the boys think ur probably attrctive and they are afraid you already have a girls friend mabey u should say after school you want to go to the dance or act like you need homework help. thats what my girl friend did
4. Hey, same with me, only I'm a guy. :P
Well, a reason guys don't ask out girls is because of the lack of courage. It's really hard to go up to a really nice and pretty girl and tell her that you like her. So many things can go wrong.
If you feel that you have enough courage, why not ask a guy? Don't always wait for them to come to you. Take every chance you have. You'll get a boyfriend in no time. Just make sure he's the right guy, smart, friendly, all that good stuff and not just a...."Look, I have a trophy-wife!" kind of guy.
--Tamino
5. In time you will, I'm sure. But guys in high school are a little more mature than the kids in middle or elementary school because middle/elementary boys tease/make fun of you. Showing their real feelings. So you have to make the first move on the guys, hun ;)
6. well if thy just stare at u thy couldnt really kno how u r and jus like how u look, r interseted in u maybe. try tlking to the ones u see staring, keep in mind som ppl jus like to stare. also, how about u doing som of the checking out urself ^.~ thn tlk to th guys ur interested in knoing
7. Well, first of all, you need to stop wondering, and just making yourself more available. Be a little more fliratious (within reason, of course) and don't act snotty or anything. Guys don't really like that, k?
8. You're just 16... while a lot of people might be dating there are people out there who wait longer. I didn't have one date until I was 21. Boys in high school are interested in dating for two reasons: sex and as a social trophy. There are very very few serious relationships that are actually built on anything substantial at your age. Don't stress about it. Just wait it out. It's worth the wait.
9. omg. are u a volleyball player? From reading this sounds like you are attractive. maybe too attractive that guys are intimidated to ask you out. Will you ever get a real boyfriend? Yes, you will because there will be this one guy who will not be intimidated by you.
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