Here's the situation: current girlfriend is working all day Saturday on the week of Halloween but I was invited to a Halloween party...by my ex-girlfriend.
I'd like to go because some of my best guy friends are going over there to hang out but I don't want to make my current girlfriend feel uncomfortable and think I might make a move on my ex. I've seen it done before and I don't want to make her think I'd do that when I wouldn't.
So I have to ask: should I stay or should I go?
Answers:
1. If you care about your girlfriend, you won't go. How can you even contemplate on going? What type of boyfriend are you?
2. talk to your current girlfriend about it. if she is not secure enough with you going, dont. if she is, go.
3. I think that if you know that you're not going to do anything wrong then go, but if you want your gf happy then I don't suggest going, that will only cause drama that's unneeded....if you want to hang out with the guys then i suggest after the party or another time....
4. i would defenietly not go!! if i were you and youre happy in your relationship dont go. I promise that if you go and your g-friend finds out she is not going to trust you and theres going to be alot of fighting and it could possibly cause for your realtionship to end. Theres more to lose than to go have fun at a party for 1 night. dont even tell her you got invited to any party, but dont go.
5. talk to your girlfriend, if she's ok with it go and have fun if she's not then surprise her at work instead.
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