i been with my boyfriend for almost a year he loves to skateboard he does it everyday. well always when i am not with him he is skating. and when i am with him he brings along his board and is always skating when i am with him. when we are walking he skates ahead of me doing tricks. i want to spend more quality time with him but it seems like he wants to spend his time with his board more than me.
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1. when he stops puberty and discovers sex he will grow up.
2. i think you should ask him to teach you how to skate board that way both of you can do it together and spend more time doing it.
3. sk8ing isn't a hobby. its a way of life. =)
4. sounds like you need to set your boy in line girrl! i would not put up with that....sounds like its getting pretty dull. youve got to spice things up a bit more try ignoring him a little bit and flirt with other boys in front of him and dress sexier. if he really wants you hell most likely ditch his board for you ... if not dump his *** :)
5. Why can't you just ask him to spend more quality time with you? I'll bet if it was skating versus him chasing other women, you would want him to skate. Find your own self a hobby too!
6. why not take up skateboarding too? i bet you guys are teenagers and still looking for fun and frolic and in a state where relationships are fleeting all the time. one step at a time and go slow.......
7. If I were you I would tell him not to bring the board when he's with me. Tell him you want that time to be for you both. Not him and his board. If after telling him this he continues to do as he has been doing. Then it means he prefers his hobby.
8. He likes you both, just differently. I hope you realize that he's trying to impress you when he does his skateboarding tricks while you walk. You are not competing with his hobby, accept that you both have a place in his life. He won't dump you for his plank....but he will if you make him "choose."
A GF once said to me "I think you like that bike more than you like me!" (I'm a triathlete). I replied, "Well it's not yelling at me right now." We didn't last.
9. This is something he enjoys doing and feels that he does well so of course,being a boy, he has to show of to his girlfriend. Rather like your cat bringing you a dead mouse..no matter how loud you scream, the cat will bring you another and another because he likes you. As for quality time..boys don't do quality time deliberately, they have to be steered into it over a soft drink or coffee when you ask questions about skateboarding and professional skateboarding and the names of different moves and so on.....you may be bored out of your skull but he will be sitting and talking instead of gliding of into the distance..and eventually you will be able to get in a word or two of your own.
10. Whether it's skating, car shows, target shooting, car restoration, painting, cooking, or ceramics, whenever one person is passionate about something and the other is not, there will be feelings of envy.
You envy the time he is spending with his skate board, but I'll bet he's been skating longer than dating you. If it was YOUR hobby, how would you split your time between the hobby and the boyfriend? Would you just stop scrapbooking, or dancing, or talking on the phone with your girlfriends just because he doesn't do that?
If you love someone, you will respect their passions.
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