Ok i have another question,
Well for the last question i posted up this girl said i was Crazy or whatever. well anways
This guy i met @ my school won`t leave me alone.
Yeah i used to like him alot
But then it just went away!
I want him to stop calling me and just leave me alone
But i`m afraid too because i don`t want to hurt him.
What should i do?! To make it sound not so bad about it?
Please no rude comments!
Answers:
1. ok. you just got to tell him that you dont have those feelings for him anymore and that you are sorry but you just dont. if he really cares about you then he should understand. even if you try your hardest for it to not hurt him, its going to anyways. theres nothing you can do about that. you can minimize the level of hurt by how you tell him.
2. Make an imaginary boyfriend up and start talking about whoever you made up in frnt of him. Then he will probably get mad after a little while and will leave you alone
3. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Be truthful
4. Be honest with him, Playing him nice will only make him feel like he has more of chance to get with you. If you arent honest to yourself then your not honest to others...You bend the truth you upset yourself, if your honest with your feelings then you have nothing to hide.
5. I'm a guy and really if you don't like him you shouldn't feel bad. Guys actually understand even though they may seem mad. You have to tell him that you don't like him anymore. You don't have to be that blatant about it, but its so much easier for any guy if you tell him first. Don't have your friend do it for you and don't say lets just be friends. You can still be friends but all guys hate hearing that, even if you were never going out.
6. either tell him to back off, or ignore him. don't answer his phone calls, don't make eye contact if you pass him in the halls. he'll probably get the picture and if that doesn't work ask an adult at school for help.
7. I would be honest with him, Just be nice about it. Something like "Hey listen - I dont want you to get the wrong idea here... I just want to stay friends." Worked for me.
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