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How should i ask, and what should I do on a date with a girl like this?

   
Cute soccer player, kind of quiet but she opens up sometimes. She hangs out with a lot of people i don't know but we talk. She also doesn't do dances, period. I've liked her forever but i can't figure out how to ask her out alone and what to do with her.

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1. 8 hours ago
Cute soccer player, kind of quiet but she opens up sometimes. She hangs out with a lot of people i don't know but we talk. She also doesn't do dances, period. I've liked her forever but i can't figure out how to ask her out alone and what to do with her. And she doesn't like movies. Ican't drive either.

2. Does she watch movies? Maybe ask her to go to a movie? Does she eat? Maybe she'd go to dinner with you? Just a couple of thoughts....

3. you should ask her out on myspace if u have one.or maybe phone.you can also ask her out face to face at skool or tell a friend to ask her out dor u.

4. when your talking to her ask her out on a date, like to go eat or the movies and talk alot with her so she can open up and not be so quiet. When your on the date with her compliment her alot and be talkative but not so much jsut have fun with her and if you think the moment is right make a small move on her.

5. Ask her for some alone time. If you guys are friends it will be easy. If your not, try 2 catch her inbetween classes. dont b nervous. Just relax and say the words, "Do you want to go out sometime?" It might be easyer if u ask her to a school dance.

6. ask her to dinner and a movie. ask her what kidof movies she likes, what kindof food she eats so u know where to go. or go ot the mall or somewhere like that.

7. Id say no movies for a first date b/c you cant really get to know the person when your occupied with sometyhing else. Diner however is a great idea, that or breakfast or w/e. Also when "asking" assume the sale. Instead of saying "do you want to go on a date sometime" say "hey, give me your number so I can call you about dinner" or something along those lines.

8. Just be friends don't rush it and scare her off. Have a party with lots of her friends and say "hay you know that girl, ask her to come she is a lot of fun." Or make friends with her friends. One guy who liked this girl made it a point to become friends with her counsin. He invited him to family functions. The end they got married. The direct approach sometimes doesn't work.

9. Ask her to have a meal with you..or even just a cup of coffee if you prefer to keep it very casual at first. Sitting down together in a restaurant or cafe gives two people the opportunity to talk about things..the news, mutual interests..anything ..and to get to know each other better and faster than anything else possibly can. Once you know her better you will be able to work out the rest for yourself.

10. Be yourself. You should already know if she digs you, by her behavior and body language. Take a risk and just ask her to do something, anything, it doesn't matter, and it doesn't have to be dancing but you should to make it fun and interactive, such as an amusement park, bowling, going to a concert. Not sure how old you are, but you should not be anyone other than yourself. If she isn't in to you, no worries, another girl that is cute will be, I promise. Just don't act unsure of yourself. If you act unsure, she will be unsure. Even if you are feeling that way, fake it. Just be cool.

11. give her an australian kiss, it's like a french kiss ,but,down under.

12. men u'v already have the answer... u didn't notice dis one... ask her if she could help you to buy a soccer outfit or uniform or whatsoever.. then if she comes with you and then she ask for whom you would give the jersey, then tell her that the jersey is for her(money is not an issue,buy the thing that interest her, make sure you know her fave football player) Notice:you must be resourcefull take a while to know her passion for sports so when you two get on a date u'll be familiar for what will the conversation is going... it's like a sailboat.. just go with the flow if you like her that much you should know u'r assignment men.. dont stalk be discreet and get to know her much needed details.. it's for u'r own good if you like to catch the much awaited price... then if all falls right into place.. the rest will be history.. piz awt...