I have a guy thats a friend. Hes really nice most of the time. he never smiles though just laughs. But sometimes he can get really emo or angry. Like sometimes in homeroom he will walk in sit down in his seat and just put his head down. when I asked him whats wrong he lifted his head and just stared... His eyes were red like he was crying and wouldnt talk. Later that day he seemed fine though.. But sometimes on the computer he vents to me and says he hates all his friends.. he says he wants to move because they never listen to him... I listen to him but he never tells me whats wrong with him i dont know why. someone please help me help him!
Answers:
1. go tell a adult not to tatlebut say like i know this person and he is acting very strange . don't say his name and at the end say what should i do
2. There might be some abuse going on in his family & that is why he looked like he had been crying. The abuse could be towards him, or other members of his family. And for a guy to talk about things like that, not really going to happen. You need to be his friend, be there for him even when he doesn't say anything. take him aside & let him know that you are his friend & that you are there for him no matter what. Tell him your a great listener, the guy may just need to vent to someone without being judged.
3. TELL HIM YOU WANT TO HELP HIM
4. Do you like him? If so how much? tell him how you feel about him and then go from there. ask him to tell you because you don't want him to fell bad. he can let some off onto you. he isn't alone in this world.
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