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HELP!?!? is this too soon????????????

   
Im a 21 yr old male college student. How long do until girls consider a guy their boyfriend? Ive only known her for about 10 days but weve been on about five dates and also have made out and have kissed goodnight several times. We both like each other and have snuggled and watched tv as well. We enjoy being around each other. Is it too soon too ask her if are in an exclusive relationship?

Answers:

1. don't ask her if you are in one. ask her if she wants to be in one. girls like to be asked.

2. Don't ask. Just consume her time so that it's obvious.

3. Hello If shes not a ho then you are b/f and g/f. And I would ask her before someone gets hurt

4. It just depends on the girl. I met my husband on a friday, we hung out all weekend, talked on the phone all the next week and towards the end of that week we were on the phone one night and he told someone he was talking to his girl. It was cute, I went with it. Just go with your gut. If your gut says youre dating, test it... introduce her to someone as your girlfriend. :D

5. If you've made out, snuggled, and all that other stuff, you might as well ask if you are her boyfriend. If you haven't already got the hint.

6. tap dance!!! like a turkey!!

7. I think it's the perfect time for you to come to her, as a gentleman, and make it known that you would like to be in an exclusive relationship. It may sound like you two are already exclusive, but you never want to assume anything, espeacially with women. If she's not ready for a relationship, just continue the friendship and it'll be up to you if you want to wait on her. Good luck!

8. It all depends on the relationship...it seems like things are going well so I would bring it up. If she's really into you then you'll end up with her in the end whether it's now or, if she's not ready, maybe a little later. Don't stress man, if she wants to take it slow give her time and it'll make the end result that much sweeter.

9. you'll never know until you ask her out. so, go for it. i think she'll like it.

10. Nope, go for it. You obviously have good chemestry. Just ask her to go steady.

11. All couple dynamics are different. Can't put a number of days that will suit everyone. Next time you two are together and no pressures or distractions around, ask her how she feels things are going between you two. Tell her how you feel they are going. See if they match. You will get feedback about wheather she "is having a good time" or she "really likes you a lot and wants to get to know you even better." That will give you some clue. If you don't get a warm fuzzy response, maybe don't be so easy to be at her beck and call all the time. Make her miss you a little, but still check in and ask how her day was.

12. Well sadly my friend...that's up to her! And the only way to know where she stands on the issue...is to ask! Ask her! Forget about us...we have no idea what's going on in her mind! Best of luck to you in your new relationship! ------------------------------... Your Personal ATM – for $9.97 http://free-instant-cash.isgreat.org... Eddy Blackwell ------------------------------...

13. Could have been love at first sight the way it sounds. Its refreshing to find a gentlemen such as yourself who wants to take it to the next level. Sounds like your so much in love you can hardly think straight. The last question in your paragraph. I don't agree with it. Your asking her, if your in an exclusive relationship? Let her know you want it to be an exclusive relationship. "Let's make our relationship an exclusive one, hun or babe, etc." " What do you think?" Discuss it from there. Sure, she'll be excited that you wanted it . Good luck.

14. If you don't know if you're her boyfriend then you're not. If you really like this girl don't waste another minute. The next time you talk to her ask her to be your girlfriend. Its really easy for example "Hey I really like you and I want us to be in an exclusive relationship will you please be my girlfriend" If she says yes then you're golden if she says no then at least you know where you stand and can decide where to go next. With all the STD's floating around would you want to be with someone who's not interested in being monogomous....