Me and my boyfriends one year aniversary is in two days. Today he said he called my cellphone 18 times and I didn't pick up. My cellphone didn't ring all those times and i didn't get a voicemail symbol either to state that he left me anything. So 3 hours later my cellphone rings and he calls me. Hes asking me where the hell i've been and that he tried calling me. I told him i was home the whole time but he didn't believe me. I asked him if i didn't answer my cellphone why didn't he call my home phone or drive by my house. He stated that he felt like i should of answered my cellphone. But i don't think its right that hes going to sit there and accuse me of something I didn't do and he didn't even bother to call my house to really see if i was home. And now he thinks i'm a lying and not telling the truth. I can't even believe this. When i believed him when i found a condom in his car visor that we don't use at all! But then hes going to take it this far for this! Its like what should do
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1. first of all. Did you get the whole condom situation resolved? I think the reason why hes being so insecure and mean is because he is being defensive!!! usually when someone has done something wrong, like cheated or whatever they are all scared that their partner is going to do it back to them. You should check out his phone and make sure hes not playing you.
2. If you don't trust each other, why are you together? Why are you allowing him to drag out this immature drama? Get it over with already and either tell him to get over it or get out. Trust me. This is drama you don't need.
3. dump him he's cheating on you
4. Dump him. He sounds controlling, and insecure, and a cheater. Just get rid of him. He's not worth the stress and bad feelings.
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