I have been studying the United States since I was 17 years old. My friends and families are still back in Thailand. I have been making my own decision for everything such as school, work, financial. Everyone said, " I am very independence and strong person..."
In the past 5 years, I have been struggled with life, but I have never asked anyone for help. I do everything on my own regardless of how hard things were...
I am now 22. I almost finish a Master degree. I am working two jobs. I have no credit debts or student loans. Well, I am very successful for my age.
The only thing I don't have is "a man" I want to find a nice, ambition, independence, and smart man. How can I find one?
To be honest, I am very picky and have a commitment problem because I cannot find the perfect guy for me.
What should I do? Will I have any chances of finding Mr. Right?
Thank you so much for your kindness.
Answers:
1. 7 hours ago Wow...
Thank you very much for your support. You guys are very nice and helpful. This is the reason why I love Yahoo Answers..
I am proud to be a Thai woman because I know from the fact that Thai women are great. Unfortunately, I cannot make negative people change their mind about the others. Therefore, if you want to think that Thai women are money hunger---it is okay with me...
Once again---Thank you :)
2. why bother, most are gay or on the down -low, be a nun. your better off.
3. have you tried speed dating or online dating sites?
i wouldve thought a thai girl would get many offers from guys!
4. Don't go out looking for a guy, they will naturally come to you. Just do your normal activities, focus even more on your work, become even MORE successful.
I'm sure there will be nice guys at your work place. Eventually, you might befriend one and fall for him. Looking for love will only lead to desperation and sadness.
Also, find a nice friend that you can talk to for the life - struggles. Preferably a guy, you can get to know and help each other some more.
You'll know when you find the right man, because all you will be able to think him and how he is perfect...
--Tamino
5. dont be so picky,what makes you think your good enough to be picky anyway?and put out that always helps.
6. You should go back home to Thailand and find you a nice Thai man....leave our American men alone for the American women. That's why there are no good men left for us....you foreigners keep taking them away from us.
7. Congratulations for having started your life so well, good job.
Good luck in finding your man, you should have no problem in finding a Mr Right.
But do a lot of window shopping and have fun doing it.
Make sure he makes you laugh and he knows how to laugh that is very important.
Go for it Girl
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!
8. you are only 22 you have worked hard. the right man will come along when you least expecting him too, just enjoy what you have acheaved. well done girl..
9. love you live
10. Where do you live? I actually work for a dating service called The Right One and we are nationwide so you may have an office near you look us up and call if you do we are very successful and we do background checks on all member to make sure you are meeting safe quality people as oppose to the internet which can be very dangerous look us up!!
11. well, you gotta get out and mingle, and if you have a list of the "perfect" man for you, review it again..it may be too perfect for anyone to meet its standards.
enjoy life and rest in the truth that he will find you when you least expect it..dont rush love..you will disappoint yourself if you do.
12. Take your time and make sure he is the right Mr Right. In University I saw guys that would would lie about anything to get the girl they wanted for a night or for a few months. The one loser I knew would lie about anything if he thought he could get that first time in bed and I even had one girl call me because he wasn't answering their calls they knew I knew him and he had already moved on to his next target... anymore with aid, date rape, divorce rates etc. any woman is selling herself short if she doesn't save it for marriage and they have been dating atleast a year. If a guy will hang around that long without getting lucky odds are he is probably serious.
Now as to where to find a good guy, a good church, a good club or hobby you enjoy, and you will find him. I met my wife of over 12 years through friends. IF not I heard e-harmony has a pretty good success rate. I was very fussy and didn't get married until 30... no rush!
Old fashion ... yep. But still married and happy with 2 kids.
Todd
13. After all that time in school you have not found someone? That person will find you in time. Maybe as you start your career he will find you. You can try the internet single sites. I am very impressed for all you have done by 22.
14. !!!!!YAY YAY YAY YAY IT'S THE POINT FAIRY!!!!!
Get OFF the computer go out and join a club , group , sporting team and Mr Right will find YOU.
You become desperate for love he wont find you cause you'll be in a relationship with a loser cause you were to impatient to wait for him .
You dont have a committment problem your just not picky enough even with you claiming your to picky .Wake up.
15. Dear Ms Thailand:
Look around, look in ur community. Think what do you want, You are in US in a global world. You urself has to be very clear.We are not picking veggies or something to be pricky, You are looking for a life partner, someone to share life with, I would suggest first think what you really want....
If you are looking for an American, An Thai, or anyone.. so be clear...
That will help you be you and dont be desperately searching.. Be ur sweetself... that will attract people , be honest and see ur self 5 yrs from now wanning a hubby, bf, or time pass or a socially pressured, or to remove isolation..
So my dear just be clear and then do the search....
Best of luck!
16. Look, there are many guys who do qualify. Woman sometimes have to be the force of a relationship because some men need direction. For the most part we are pretty decent lot but there are always exceptions. If you find a guy that is unselfish, smart and passes on his teachings you will have a good one.
17. ah you sound like you have done very well for yourself..so firstly well done you!!xx People say the man of your dreams will come along eventually..but sometimes fate needs a push.. have some evenings out with your friends at clubs or restaurants, bars etc , or there is the internet dating game which may suit you if you are a bit picky but i would be a bit wary..you never know who your talking to, or what about going to a singles night?take some friends with you again and make a night of it...if you see someone you like then go for it..if you don't then there's always next timeX I wish you luck..im sure you will be just fine, your still young and have plenty of time to be picky.xxx
18. First, welcome to the land of opportunity. Second, don't try to force the issue of trying to find someone. Finish your studies first. Love will be found along the way, when you least expect it. Good luck to you.
19. YOu sound like a very nice intelligent young woman. Congratulations for what you've done. don't dispair, the right man will come to you. Maybe try to search for him, expose (give visibility) yourself, you have the internet, many venues.
I can understand you're picky and it's allowed.
good luck to you
20. Don't go searching for the right guy you will only bump in to one that is not worth it. Let him come to you, get to know his good and bad habits don't pressure him or yourself into a serious relationship that will only separate you from the right guy before you even know he is worth it. Show that you care but can live with out them. Don't give him all your time from day one have him earn that time so when your finally together he feels it special. Have your standards but don't be picky remember that if there is something you don't like about a guy you can slowly change him to your 99.9% perfect men. Yes I believe you do have chance just as long you stop looking for it.
21. socialize and go places you like with friends and relax, dont searchhe will come to you then when you are not looking.
22. I'm not surprised you cannot find "Mr. Right". You are looking for someone that does not exist - nobody is "perfect"! You say that "everybody" sees Thai women as "money hungry". Wrong. You are the one who wants to see Thai women apart from yourself classed as such. There are no more money hungry Thai women than there are of any other nationality.
Good for you that you have attained all you have and become a very strong and independant woman, and done it on your own through hard work, without loans or running up debts. That on it's own is something for you and your family to be very proud of.
Climb down of your pedestal girl! Men will avoid you like the plague if they feel you are looking down your nose at them. You are coming across as so very arrogant. Just because you are independent and strong doesn't mean a man needs to know that from the word go, does it. I'm independent and quite a strong person, but my partner still has to feel "like a man" and I like being treated "like a woman". Soften up a bit - let a man get close enough to you to want to protect, support, buy you little gifts etc., Accept a "gift" for what it is, a gesture of fondness not as payment in kind!
Good luck.
P.s. No, I am not Thai, but I do personally know several woman who are, and married to British men, but they are not money hungry. They are very kind and beautiful women who love their husbands very much and their husbands love them likewise.
23. i think your trying to hard,it will happen when the time is right i thought id never find mr right,and i tell you when i was just about to give up he came into my life,also i want to say how proud i am of you doing things on your own,most kids these days expect things to just come to them,its nice to hear what youve done on your own,take care mr right will turn up when you least expect him too
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