Seems like I am a nice dude and will do all the things right. Then, seems like I am dropped the next week. I have tried the A%%-holic approch which didnt work in my favor too well and I tried the nice guy way. What do ya'll recommend? Help. Thanks in advanced.
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
Does nice guys finish last?
2. Well I can answer this from my own personal experiences. I know how you feel because I can relate.
I used to be real nice (Still am these days) to girls and would see that drug dealers, gang members, etc would get all the girls. I didn't understand why until later.
The answer is that the girls want security. They want to know that their man will stick up for them if anyon gave them grief. In fact, wouldn't you want your girlfriend to stick up for you and help you in times of need?
A way to get the girls and not be a bad guy about it is that you act confident, know what your talking about (but don't brag), and be funny. It's said over and over again, but girls like personalities over looks. If a bodybuilder has a girlfriend, he is ripped with a 6 pack, but he threatens her and has nothing in common with her, she will eventually drop him quick. Only after the good guy comes in her life and convinces her to do better.
If there is a specific girl your after and she is with a bad boy, start by being her friend. Then take it up a notch and be best friends. Constantly tell her that she deserves better once her boyfriend starts to neglect her. During this process, begin to flirt around with her, but play it off as a joke. This will show her that you want to take the relationship to a new level and she will now know she can lean on you for support, even if you don't fight her battles.
I hope this helps you bro. This is what I have done and it has seemed to work. =D
3. be yourself.
4. be your honest self
5. i agree.
just be yourself.
and most girls dont go for that kind of guy anyway.
girls want a gentleman thats going to treat them with respect.
sorry if i sound corny..
but *coming from a girl*
its true.
at least thats the kind of guys i go for.
hope that helps!
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