Okay, so I'm not the type to be jealous a lot, but I'm sort of jealous of my best friend. Not so much her, but the fact that she has the perfect relationship. I've been in about 10 relationships, and none of them really worked out. I'm always being used, cheated on, lied to, etc. Her boyfriend treats her like a princess. He buys her nice jewelry, texts her every morning and night, calls her often, knows when something is wrong and makes sure shes okay, holds her in his arms, doesn't push her to do anything, is nice and sweet to her, etc.
Basically, I would DIE to be in a relationship like hers. I'm happy for them, but at the same time it hurts me to to see them so happy together and in a perfect relationship.
And I know by posting this question, I'm not going to magically get an amazing boyfriend. But does anyone have any advice or tips to help me not be jealous or so depressed about it.
Thanks.
Answers:
1. See a psychiatrist.
2. ask ur friends boyfriend to see if any of his friends are available.
3. This sounds like a young relationship.
What always makes me feel better is knowing that even though it looks perfect from the outside, it probably isn't on the inside.
Relationships are never easy and for every seemingly perfect man out there, there is a woman who is sick and tired of putting up with his crap.
4. I'm here!!! e-mail me.
5. Firstly, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship - yep, they may not have any issues, but I'm sure they will have arguments from time to time. You've got to kiss a few toads to know when your 'prince' comes along - that's how I would look at your past experiences with men and relationships, they've all taught you what you don't want! Instead of concentrating on your friends relationship, I would think about what you want and be really selective when you go out with guys - even if you feel bad for turning them down.
6. you know this made me go back a few yrs ago. i dont usually acostume o have best friends but i did this girl had ur same problem, she was so jealous of me because i have a good husband back then boyfriend. she was so close to me. she was like my sister. everything i did with my husband was a problem to her cause she didnt have that. guys used her,playes her,dissed her. and now we hardly speak i have more than 2 yrs i dont speak to her. well just wan to ell you a friend is a friend everyone is not lucky enough to have a great men but your lucky to have a good friend if she is....goood luck
7. How you feel isnt really "jealousy" in fact its not at all, your lost and you want to be found, everyone deals with it so dont pressure yourself into believing there isnt anyone out there for you. Everyone seeks that "special" one and honestly although everything looks crystal in your eyes doesnt make them "Perfect" as a couple. Every relationship has its ups and downs. If everything went perfect constantly then you couldnt really enjoy things that seemed to be up and beyond. As for your friend be supportive, and be happy for her.
8. HEY GIRL WE ALL WISH WE CAN FIND GUYS LIKE HIM BUT THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE ONLY COME ONE IN A MILLION. YOUR FRIEND GOT LUCKY. LOOK I WOULD BE JEALOUS TO IF MY FRIENDS HAD A GUY LIKE THAT. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS YOU KNOW YOU AND YOUR FRIEND SHOULD TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT GUYS AND HOW LUCKY SHE IS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT. I'M SURE SHE WON'T GET MAD BECAUSE YOUR AT LEAST TELLING HER. LOOK ALL US GIRLS OUT THERE ARE LOOKING FOR A GUY LIKE WHAT YOUR FRIEND HAS. SOMEDAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR TRUE BOYFRIEND DON'T WORRY DON'T BE IN A RUSH JUST WAIT IT SHOULD COME NATURALLY.
9. Stop comparing yourself with your bestfriend.
try to focus on yourself...
10. You may think that your friend and her boyfriend have a "perfect" relationship, but no relationship is perfect! As long as you are accommodating, self-respecting, and stick to your morals, you will find Mr. Perfect For You eventually! Don't settle and hang in there!
11. it sounds to me that you are in some sort of a hurry to fin true love i can tell you buy experience i was in a bad and domestic relation ship but when i left i gave myself time to heal and then when i least expected it i found the love of my life and i have never been more happy we are all destined in our lives to find true love and happiess just take one day at a time and let things happen when they are meant to be it will work itself all out just enjoy each day as it comes
12. Why do you feel so depress life is all about being strong. How old are you by the way maybe I can help you
what is your email address??? do you need a buddy????
13. See a psychiatrist.
14. ask ur friends boyfriend to see if any of his friends are available.
15. This sounds like a young relationship.
What always makes me feel better is knowing that even though it looks perfect from the outside, it probably isn't on the inside.
Relationships are never easy and for every seemingly perfect man out there, there is a woman who is sick and tired of putting up with his crap.
16. I'm here!!! e-mail me.
17. Firstly, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship - yep, they may not have any issues, but I'm sure they will have arguments from time to time. You've got to kiss a few toads to know when your 'prince' comes along - that's how I would look at your past experiences with men and relationships, they've all taught you what you don't want! Instead of concentrating on your friends relationship, I would think about what you want and be really selective when you go out with guys - even if you feel bad for turning them down.
18. you know this made me go back a few yrs ago. i dont usually acostume o have best friends but i did this girl had ur same problem, she was so jealous of me because i have a good husband back then boyfriend. she was so close to me. she was like my sister. everything i did with my husband was a problem to her cause she didnt have that. guys used her,playes her,dissed her. and now we hardly speak i have more than 2 yrs i dont speak to her. well just wan to ell you a friend is a friend everyone is not lucky enough to have a great men but your lucky to have a good friend if she is....goood luck
19. How you feel isnt really "jealousy" in fact its not at all, your lost and you want to be found, everyone deals with it so dont pressure yourself into believing there isnt anyone out there for you. Everyone seeks that "special" one and honestly although everything looks crystal in your eyes doesnt make them "Perfect" as a couple. Every relationship has its ups and downs. If everything went perfect constantly then you couldnt really enjoy things that seemed to be up and beyond. As for your friend be supportive, and be happy for her.
20. HEY GIRL WE ALL WISH WE CAN FIND GUYS LIKE HIM BUT THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE ONLY COME ONE IN A MILLION. YOUR FRIEND GOT LUCKY. LOOK I WOULD BE JEALOUS TO IF MY FRIENDS HAD A GUY LIKE THAT. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS YOU KNOW YOU AND YOUR FRIEND SHOULD TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT GUYS AND HOW LUCKY SHE IS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT. I'M SURE SHE WON'T GET MAD BECAUSE YOUR AT LEAST TELLING HER. LOOK ALL US GIRLS OUT THERE ARE LOOKING FOR A GUY LIKE WHAT YOUR FRIEND HAS. SOMEDAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR TRUE BOYFRIEND DON'T WORRY DON'T BE IN A RUSH JUST WAIT IT SHOULD COME NATURALLY.
21. Stop comparing yourself with your bestfriend.
try to focus on yourself...
22. You may think that your friend and her boyfriend have a "perfect" relationship, but no relationship is perfect! As long as you are accommodating, self-respecting, and stick to your morals, you will find Mr. Perfect For You eventually! Don't settle and hang in there!
23. it sounds to me that you are in some sort of a hurry to fin true love i can tell you buy experience i was in a bad and domestic relation ship but when i left i gave myself time to heal and then when i least expected it i found the love of my life and i have never been more happy we are all destined in our lives to find true love and happiess just take one day at a time and let things happen when they are meant to be it will work itself all out just enjoy each day as it comes
24. Why do you feel so depress life is all about being strong. How old are you by the way maybe I can help you
what is your email address??? do you need a buddy????
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