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I've being dating guy for a yr,& we wanted to get engaged & got rings. but now he says he is having duds.?

   
help! What would you do in this case? I understand, but it hurts me.

Answers:

1. Having duds? Like the candy milk duds? I think you mean he's having doubts??? You two obviously have feelings for each other but see where things end up. You might have to push back the wedding which I assume you haven't had yet. Wouldn't you want him to realize he shouldn't marry you before the wedding then to get married and ignore his doubts and then you wind up even more miserable and hurt six months down the road when it's all over? Give him time and see what happens. Still be yourself and hopefully he'll remember why he wanted to get married in the first place.

2. atleasy he is being upfront instead of waiting til after marriage and all that expense and stuff.