Hey
I am meaning to ask this girl at the salon if she want to go and and have coffee with me...
I am not a very touchy person.....Should I hug her when I pick her up, drop her off or don't hug her at all unless she opens up her arms?
Thanks
Answers:
1. i think itd be really nice if you hugged her, just once :]
im sure she would appreciate it :]
goodluck!
2. Until you know without a doubt she will be receptive, I recommend you remain hands off and don't give any hugs.
You need to know (for sure) she is receptive to this type of physical contact. At the moment, you don't.
3. uhm, i guess if that is your first time hanging out together better wait for her signal.. you don't want to be slap when you hug her in an instant right.. try to be a perfect gentleman..
4. Do you mean you aren't touchy with people in general? Does that include people you want to have a relationship with? If yes then 1. Have her meet you there. and 2. Only hug her if she makes the first move to hug you. Problem solved.
Plus if you go and have a great time you may actually WANT to hug her....you never know. Good Luck!
5. The more you think about it, the more awkward and uncomfortable it'll get... Just let it come naturally... and if you're not planning to go natural... then No dont hug her when you pick her up and No dont hug her when you drop her off coz you're not a very touchy person and that will make you uncomfortable and nervous thinking about it. It's just coffee... you could hint that you like her... or hint for a second date... :) hope this works... OFCOURSE hug her when she opens up her arms... so try to keep a lil distance so that you could see the arms coming XD
6. if you havent known her for a long time yet, then i think hugging her might be a little bit too soon and might make her feel awkward...you can instead assist her when she's walking, like you know hold her casually on the arm beneath the elbow...but if you've known her for quite sometime, then i guess its okay for you to give her a little hug or a quick kiss on the cheek after the date...
7. At the end of your date I think you should hug her.
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