I really like this boy in my gym class and his name is Zach and he is so my type but after 2 weeks of school I found out that he has a girlfriend but I still really like him...I'm confused on what to do about it...my friend said to get over it and move on but I'm not sure if I should or not because I still really like him a lot..Or should I wait for him...I dont see why he wouldnt like me though I am very pretty and I am so nice to everyone..I havent had a bf in about 7 months and I think its about time to get back on track with the whole guy thing...So what should I do?
Answers:
1. wait till they brak up then make ur move
2. well i think you should go out with me?
3. ummm well keep him in mind but also have other options
4. I agree with your friend. If he already has a girlfriend he's not available - how would you like it if someone came along and wanted to take your boyfriend? Just be friends with him if you can and if his relationship ends with the girl that he is with then you will have your opportunity - but I definately would not force the issue.
5. wait or if you want to give him money
6. Whatever you do - Don't try to steal your crush away from his current girlfriend! Let their relationship run it's course and don't interfere with that. As for now, try talking to the guy and befriend him so you can see if you really do like him or if it's just the hormones talking. If he breaks up with his current girlfriend, don't be too fast to get into a relationship with him or you'll end up as his rebound which is deffinately not good. Best of luck!
7. Is his girlfriend your friend? If so, then morality dictates you back off. If she is not, hell - the man is not married and will probably have many girlfriends before he finally commits himself to the aisle, so go for it.
8. I don't think you would like it if you were going out with him and another girl that likes him tried to make a move...
9. Judging from how quickly you move from one guy to the next, you'll probably be the type to have multiple sex partners later in life. Out of all the promiscuity, and one relationship after another, just don't try to steal someone else's mate, unless you want to become a homewrecker too.
10. I would agree with your friend. If he has a girlfriend, he might not be leaving that relationship any time soon. If you want to "get back on track with the whole guy thing", you probably don't want to just wait around for Zach and his girlfriend to break up.
See who else is around at your school. Get to know guys as friends and see where it takes you. Who knows, maybe you'll meet a guy who's been in your situation (been attracted to a girl who's in turn had a boyfriend).
Best of luck!
11. I honestly think that if you really want him you need to talk to him. Depending on the age though it could be alittle difficult.
Middle school - Shouldnt be too hard to wait, sry to say it, but puppy love relationships dont ever last unless you were childhood sweethearts.
9th-10th grade - best bet for a good result by waiting but at the same time, dont get your hopes up.
11th grade - not a good way to wait, better to just work it out with the person and see if they have a long term plan to do with the girl he has.
12th grade - you might as well forget it, it is most likely a more commited relationship and the only way you could get them apart is if the relationship falls apart and you are there to help him get through it.
12. DO not get in the middle of his current relationship! you cant be selfish. you have to wait until the relationship with the other girl doesnt work out, and dont go with him right away, you might be the rebound. Be patient and youll get your chance
13. Definatly go for it, whos saying his relationship isn't on the rocks anyway? Listen, being a guy, if I had a gf and a cooler girl came into my life I would get her instead. Although this guy and I are are diff. in this regard b/c I wouldnt want an exclusive relationship to begin with, so mabye hes the loyal type, but still go for it.
14. First thing; don't make any moves until/if he breaks up with his present girlfriend.
If I were you, I would ocasionally flirt a little and just drop little hints. Don't throw yourself at him, and deffinetly don't do anything you'll regret later. If he's really happy with his current girlfriend and doesn't plan on leaving her anytime soon, then you should move on and find someone who will see you for you are.
Good luckk.
15. well since im a guy and it u were hotter than my gf and i knew u liked me then id end things with the current gf, so if u see them break up within a month or two then start talkin to him but for now be friends and see what he does about his gf now
16. I think you should just take your time and if your are pretty and nice like you say you are this guy can't be your only option. I think you should somewhat wait for him and concentrate on school. Eventually some guy might ask you out ;-)
17. just focus in something else, because if you keep all your time thinking and waiting....you are not going to get nothing good and takes away your attention because your are living to like someone that maybe does not feel the same that you do......or at least talk to him and see what is in his head, know him better.... maybe he is a jerk and you finish just looking somewhere else
18. i am having the same problem, i am trying to get them to brake up and its sorta working..i think let meno whos answer u choos and what works out thanksss<3
19. Well I think you should start off as one of his friends, because soon or later he's going to realize that you are a fun and cool person to hang with. Trust me, a long friendship ends up turning into a relationship (The one you are talking about.)
From what I've seen and heard many people start off as friends. Here's and example some, well 75 % of most TV shows that's dealing with friendships of the opposite sex starts dating. So I know you can work your self up to the top of his list.
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