i am a 55 year old white male,i am a truck driver and i make a lot of money,people like me and people respect me because i am a hard worker.everybody seems to like me except my only son.my ex wife and i had only one child,my sons sorry disgusting mother divorced me for no reason several years ago.i cannot get revenge on my ex wife so i made the decision several years ago to punish our son.when our son was 13 years old and living with me,i would drink beer and wake my son up at 3 in the morning and i would mentally torture him.i would call my son a lazy sorry piece of garbage,i have told my son several times that the only reason why he is alive is that when his mother and i were having sex i was not able to pull it out on time.nine months later,our sorry pathetic bastard son was born.my son is now 33 years old and even now i put him down and abuse him any chance i get.i am doing this because his mother divorced me for no reason,i have never physically hit my son
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1. Wow. Sounds like he has every reason to be disrespectful to you.
2. it sounds like you are a miserable piece of crap. no wonder your son hates you and your former is now your ex. you NEVER degrade someone just because you feel inadequate about your own character.... one day you are going to be sorry that you have done the damage... particularly when your a ss is sitting lonely in a nursing home, getting sexually abused by a male nurse
3. The reason he ignores you and disrespects you is because of how you disrespected and tormented him. If you tell him that you did that because of what his mother did, he may understand. Also, try not to abuse and put him down anymore. You should use that hard-worker attitude and fix up your relationship with him.
Be kind to your son, and swallow your pride and tell him that you wish to get to know him better.
4. Get a therapist and stop playing games with people on here.
5. lol
dont feed the trolls ;)
But to the asker, the last statement is the problem. You went soft. Wake him up, and beat the sh*t out of him, then he'll KNOW to respect you, and if he doesn't, beat him until he does.
6. you should go and see a doctor. because your of your f--king head. you first class jerk.
7. I hope your story isn't true! If it is, you are a poor excuse for a father... How dare you even ask this question, in truth or in jest... You are pathetic!!!---- Sorry, but you asked...
8. You know, you might as well have hit your son. At least bruises go away quickly. So you emotionally torture a little boy all through his teen years and well into his adult life, and you're asking us why he ignores you? How old are you? 12? I'm sorry to be so abrupt, but I had a similar upbringing and I gotta say- it sounds like there is something about you that might've given your ex-wife a very good reason to leave. Maybe you should look inward to solve your problems. Your consience is NOT your son's responsibility.
9. I wouldn't talk to you either. You mentally abused your son for no reason, you have no right to say anything but I'm sorry to him. You were trying to get back at his mom..well guess what? You messed up your relationship with him..forever. You never ever degrade your children because of their parents actions..you shouldn't be a father. Also..your son doesn't respect you because you never showed him respect. You know that saying that says that Respect is a two-way street? Well, your son got tired of trying to be respectful when you hurt him.
10. Sounds like he was taught by the best
11. Hi Mathew H,
You sow what you plant. Honestly, I think you deserve what you got. When your wife divorced you & you were hurt. You forgot that you're son was confused & hurt as well. Instead of sticking together & helping each other go through this tough time, you resorted to beer. Beer is actually ok. But you have to torture your son, wake him up every 3am and demean him. Now he is 33 and as you mentioned, you continue to put him down. If I were in your son's shoes, I would distance myself as far from you as possible. It's bad enough that you treated him harsh during his younger years. He doesn't need that from you now. I think the problem is solely with you. Up to now, you still haven't gotten over your wife's abandoning you. And you're simply using him to assuage your hurt. Instead of having a son, who is close to you and loves you. Now you have a son who is distant, aloof & disrespectful. and the hard truth is he's right. We are taught to respect our parents. But only if that parent is deserving of the respect. You don't.
12. Maybe you should have just beat him words hurt and they stick, bruises at least go away. Yes he is disrespecting you and rightfully so if one of my parents treated me like that I would not talk to them. It is not and was not his fault that your ex-wife divorced you.There are ways to heal YOUR SELF go talk to some body, especially if you are still beating him up with words. would you put up with that kind of abuse probably not so STOP you are not hurting his mother you are hurting him.
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