right now i hate my whole freaking life.
my dad got a hold of my msn chat logs and found out that i was talking to a guy...
now i cant ever have msn..
and appearently my trust with him is a flop, when i asked for msn he said sure, okay. but dont add strangers, well hes not a stranger. i mean like seriously its a guy im 12...
i also hate that when he says something but hes wrong and its my sisters fault i take the blame and when i defend myself he says to stop arguing and talking back... like wtf.
i feel like a prisoner in my own home, i dont care i feel like i wanna run away but i love my mom and sister. today he even said he wouldnt bring me to volleyball tomorrow morning because i "argued" back.
seriously i hate my life...
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
nml.
okay, your reading the question wrong (Y) hes not a stranger...
2. You were talking to a stranger on line and you were being a smart mouth. He is just trying to protect you and be a good father. You are a child. Listen to your father.
3. If you are having trouble communicating with your dad then maybe you could approach you mom and tell her how you feel. Explain the situation in a calm and mature manner. Ask her to help you find ways to be able to talk to your dad. Maybe she can even act as a go between until you and your dad find a way to talk without getting upset with each other.
As for the computer issue, where did you know the person you added from? If it is from the computer than I understand where he is comign from. If you know this person in real life then you should tell your parents that and explaint o them how you know this person.
I would be te same way with one of my kids, I ask them all the time who people are and I read their emails and everything. It really isn't about not trusting my kids but not trusting the other people on the internet. I do not want one of my kids to be one of the ones who disappear because they were lured away, and I am sure this is what your dads concern is. Give him a little break, he is only protecting what is precious to him. Sometimes parents can be over protective, but we do it because we love you and would rather be safe than sorry.
Open up and really talk to your parents, building a strong relationship with them is the best way to earn their trust.
4. you are a bid whiner! it serves you right, if you were talking to a guy and your only twelve he could be arrested if hes older than eighteen, so your father is right you shouldn't be talking to him or anybody else for that matter. your father sounds like a smart man, listen to him, hes trying to protect you. trust him he knows more than you do.
5. Hi
I know you think you are in a real tuff spot right now. But i want you to think of something before you get any worst. You know no matter what daddy loves you and dont want anyone hurting u. What were you talking about with this boy. good stuff . bad stuff , sexy stuff. I'm sure he did not get mad at just regular talking. So try to relax and time changes everything, plus you know how to sneak MSM> So chill out and relax.
6. your twelve and you hate your life. yup your situation sounds normal to me.
7. I think he's wrong.
8. No your dad is very right,I know that is not what you want to hear but sweetie you are 12 and this guy is how old and how do you know him do you go to school with him? There are a lot of crazy people out there these days your Dad is just trying to protect you, not control you. wait it out a few days then approach him again and if you go to school with this BOY then explain it to him.Then maybe he'll give you your MSN back.You just can be to careful these days so please be very careful. I hope you work things out good luck.
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