im 15. my bf never calls me & never spends time with me. its been 2 months. he has been busy. i hate it. i cry for him everyday cuz i miss him. i call & he doesnt answer. he always has an excuse not to see me. he isnt dating someone else. how can i make him call me? someone has to make him call.
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1. Sorry but he doesn't sound like he's your boyfriend anymore. You will be happier if you get over him and move on. Somebody better will come along!
2. Well if i were you i would go up to him and say do u wanna be friends cause you arent acting like i need to know know caise i am not gunna wast my time on you. Just Make New Friends1!!
3. MAKE HIM JEALOUS!!!! Flirt w/ other guy in front of him. He will get so jealous and try to hang out with u more.
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4. Well either its time to find somebody else who will acept you and give you the affection and time that you want and if thats not an option then sit down and talk with find out what the problem is if it can be fixed both of you work on it if it cant then move on you desereve better. : )
5. a pieces of advice i was amarried woman you never make males do anything dont call them they call you if this male is for real he will call you dont waste your time he does not sound right for you
6. If it has been two months then he isn't that busy. It seems as though he has lost interest and isn't man enough to tell you the truth to your face. He's a little boy who thinks that by avoiding you that will make you go away.
If you want to guage if he's still interested then do not call him at all from here on out. If he never calls he isn't interested. If he misses you he will find the time to call you. You can't make a person do what they don't want to do so there is no way to make him call you.
If you hear nothing in 3 months move on to someone more mature who can handle a real relationship.
7. you do not seem to be one of his main priorities anymore according to what you've written here and thats not cool. although you may really like him he might not feel the same way meaning you can do better! as a girlfriend you should be the one he always thinks about and wants to talk to so if thats not the case then you deserve better. it may be hard but a girlfriend should never settle for less then the best when it comes to treatment by her boyfriend.
8. I feel really bad for you, and yeah i hate when ppl make excuses to not call. I can see not being able to call a lot or everyday, but wow how can someone be too busy to ever pick up a phone...it takes two minutes to dial and make a quick call, if thats all there is time for. The only good excuse for not calling would be like if his schedule totally clashes with yours....for example hes asleep or at work while u are at work or school and vice versa.
I think you need to reevaluate your relationship and ask if you deserve to be treated that way or if u can handle that much time without communication. Figure out why he is suddenly so busy now and wasnt before, and if his story really seems legit.
I guess mainly you need to tell him what u posted, that it bothers you and you dont know if you can handle it. And that you feel like he is dissing you in a way. Tell him that it could cause a breakup if it continues. Tell him u need to hear from him or else. Don't settle for mediocrity in men.
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