My GF has a Myspace and exchanges messages with guy friends but is throwing a fit about a female coworkers sending me text messages. Truly not trying to brag but I know several of my coworker would like to hook up with me but, honestly I don't feel that way about any of them. Reason being, I am content in my current relationship. Unless they are forwarded jokes, none of the messages I have received have any kind of sexual content. Is she being a hypocrit by not wanting me to have female friends? And really, do you think for a second that any of her single "guy friends" wouldn't go to a motel with her if she asked them to? What do you think?
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1. 8 hours ago
..and no I've never cheated on her.
2. Very hypocritical, no way would I ever put up with that.
3. Its all about trust...you have to trust each other or it will never work. As far as the both of you talking to the opposite gender it shouldn't matter as long as the both of you are being respectful of the relationship and one another.
4. Is it fair... No... Is she being overly jelous... yes... would I be a little worried, unless she has a history of being cheated on (not by you), yeah actually would... why... because I've had a couple of ex's pull the "I think your cheating on me" when they were the ones doing the cheaing... just to try to deffer the blame that they had for themselves....
I'd say that you may want to re-examine this relationship, because She shouldn't be worried who your talking to... and should lay off... now you should definateally talk about this and try to figure out why she's doing this... but it's really not right..
5. let her know that u dont think its fair that she talks to guys on myspace and she then gets mad when girls text you. she has to choose to either let you talk to girls or shell stop talking to boys. She has to decide and compromise also.
6. i feel that it is a little more intimate when you are sending text messages...and she could maybe think that you are calling this girl too and talking to her.
but then again i would def. not put up with my boyfriend texting girls unless i knew them and felt comfortable that they werent into you
on the other hand myspace..i would monitor what is said during the converstaions and as soon as something sexual came up i would be mad..but just casual talking is fine
7. Yea man, you're happy with her that's one thing.
But female friends to a guy is something awesome, you want that HAVE THAT
Otherwise, don't let her run your life when she's doing what she's telling you not to do...COME at her with it "What do you mean i can't have any female friends ?!"
Be STRAIGHT ABOUT IT, YOU'RE A MAN & THAT"S WHAT YOU WANNA HAVE (not to mention it's totally legit)
...if she carries on, dump her; there's a million other girl who'll play by your rules
PS: "I don't mean to brag"....Wtf ?!, BRAG !
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