like super prude. today would have been our perfect like makeout, we were along alone holding eachother in eachothers arms and looking into each others eyes, and i REALLY like him but wtf i dont want to make out with him and i dont know why and its really irratating me. wow man. lol i wish he was more aggressive and would just like start doing it. lol ive made out with about 10 different guys, but they were all aggressive, i dont like the ones that ask you or somthing thats gay. i like the ones that go for what they want and take it. well not take to much but u get the point. please help me why cant i just be more open to new things like i should make the move but id never have the balls to. ughhh help me. ily if u do =]
Answers:
1. I would go for it if i were you.
maybe he doesnt think you dont want to or something and so he's holding back.
If you make the first move he'll be sure to catch on.
2. hes probably just trying to respect you and let you make the first move so he doesnt seem like hes pressuring you. Its ok to feel awkward because it just means your not ready to take the next step yet. It will come with time you might just have to be more comfortable with him which will give you the confidence you need.
3. lol...i am just like you. glad to know i am not the only one!
just take your time, and really think about whether this guy is worth allowing yourself to be free and giving. if so, it sounds like this guy is very sensitive to your needs and does not want to overpower you. be thankful for such, and have an honest conversation with him about how you feel, as well as your needs.
4. you're not prude, you're just shy. I hate it when guys are like "can i ...?" it's stupid. i agree.
5. Tell him exactly what you told us. But if that is not the way he is. Your not going to have much luck. It might work once in awhile. I think the problem is he is like you. When and if you tell him you like the take charge control type. That might make him think wrong of you. He might get the impression you like to be dominated. When in reality your just shy. I think he is as shy as you about these things.
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