My boyfriend of 5 months has agreed that he will meet me at the INDY on sunday. He has been going for 6 years and has never taken a girl not even his ex. So i said great i will meet you there then yesturday when i ask him whats going on with sunday i did not reply its like do you want me to come still or what? Um he is leaving in the morninig and will be there for a few days before i get there so i am giving him his freedom so why now wont he tell me whats going on with sunday. Does he just not want me to go and cant find it in his heart to tell me. Can i trust him do you think guys that he should take me or at least meet me on sunday or is he trying to hide the fact that he is going to run a muk or what need guys to tell me what they think. Sorry i know this question is all over the place just like my head at the monment.
Answers:
1. i believe you may be making too much of a headache for yourself. you made plans to meet and now you're second guessing your own plans...no wonder he's acting strange to you.
tell him when to meet you sunday and be super excited like you were when you made the plans in the beginning. go ahead and forgive yourself and if you want to own up to your mistake to him about being insecure then do it, but don't forget---you made the plan and if you want it to be fun, then you'll have to make it that way right?
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