I love her, we've been together over 9 months and its been the best 9 months of a relationship ive had. I mean deep down in my heart (Not My Head) that I love her, Im afraid of believing that we will be together for a long time...Its not that I dont wanna be but I know things change. Is there anything recommended to relight sparks that were once inflamed? Somtimes I feel she isnt into me like she used to be, Should I be afraid of her finding someone better then I am?How can I reassure myself that what we have is still there and she still holds the same feelings for me as I do her without making it sound like im worrying?
Answers:
1. tell her how u feel
2. Give me that number son... she aint into you... let me show her how a real G roles.... Also don't waste your time she a "fukin skank"
3. I think you are thinking into things too much. I couldn't believe that the guy I wanted so bad finally wanted to date me. 15 months and we have had our ups and downs, and I have been scared it wouldn't go as long as it did. Do things as you did when you first went out. Do surprise dinners or gifts. Pamper her with an at home relaxation massage by you. Surprise her with roses and a special love note or even a teddy. Just relax and things are going to be ok, I swear.
4. relationships are hard work you need to keep the romance alive, women love that, my partner and I have been together 3 years now, stop focussing on what's wrong but on what you can do.Goodluck
5. If i were you i'd go out of my way to do soemthing sweet for her. Take her lunch during her lunch break, take her a single rose during her break.Leave her a sweet note on her car or window. Compliment her on what a great g-friend shes been to you. In the long run, she wont remember the gifts you bought her BUT she will remember all the details and sweet gestures. Just do these once in a while not all at the same time because then shell become suspicious !! Good Luck, keep being yourself and good to her and she wont want to give you up.
6. Now, now. Calm down. First of all, there's no such thing as one being "better" than another.
If you love her, you shouldn't worry. Love is something mysterious. Of course, many believe, or at least want to believe and make themselves believe, that love is something permanent. Some say it is just an emotion, though one greater than others and that lasts longer, while others say, and have proved, that it is simply dopamine(or another, I forgot which)[psychology].
but in any case, it doesn't matter. It's about commitment. Who cares how others define it? If she loves you then she would stay with you and you have nothing to worry about. I guess you sense that because love does fade away at times. Especially as you grow older and older. But try to live every day as if you're about to die the next day, because we never know when our lives will end. Just make the best of it, and also talk to her. Tell her how you feel about this, but don't look or sound worried in any way. Just be casual, calm. Good luck
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