well he had and has i now but he knows my man has been sayin stuff and tellin me and he wants me to break up with him and i dont know who to choose but he wants to fight him and now i dont know what to do
Answers:
1. You tell your friend that he/she isn't in the relationship with your boyfriend, YOU are. that's bull crap. don't let them get in the way of your relationship and if they make you choose, leave them. =]
2. i would chose a friend cause they are always there bfs come and go
3. apparently your friend has more feelings for you than you realize. i think you should approach your friend about them and let him know that right now is not a good time in your life for you to pursue a relationship (other than a friendship) with him.
it's going to be tough, but also let him know that you want to understand why he doesn't like your new boyfriend. try and find a solution together that can bring harmony in everyone's life.
if your new boyfriend cannot reconsider his opinions of your friend then maybe you should think twice about what you are getting yourself into. maybe he doesn't want you to have any friends that way you'll do or behave anyway he (your bf) wishes.
good luck and i hope they can forgive each other.
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