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How should I approach this girl and ask her out?

   
I have met this girl who goes to my university in a dance club. I like her personality shes smart, flirtacious, and shes cool. I also think she is very beautiful and she has a nice butt and body. She sometimes flirts with me and tell me things like I am handsome but it has not gotten more serious than that. I would like to tell her I love and ask her out however I dont want to do it in a way where things get out of control and move too quickly and we end up sleeping together.

Answers:

1. Why dont u hook her up with ur cell phone number and ask for hers to. Ask her if she wants to go hang with u and then take her some where.

2. let your primitive instincts take over club her over the head and take her back to your room like a caveman. smash!!!!

3. Don't think you're going to sleep with her. Are you kidding? You think you can hit a home run with her? You want to tell her you love her. Do you even know her besides her being in your dance club? You think it's going to happen that fast? If so, then just straight out ask her to hang out with you. I don't believe you guys will move too quickly. Tell her what you like about her, her personality.

4. be yourself, be straightfoward with her and tell her how your feeling. dont make it so hard on yourself, your probably a little nervous about asking her thats why you need some help, but i know that everyone is scared of being rejected or having nothing more than being friends with that person. dont just say i love you and will you go out with me. say something like you care for her and you have feelings towards her that are more than just a friend and you were wondering if there was any chance that she might feel the same way. she's probably also a little scared to say something to you thats why nothing goes further between the two of you besides flirting because she might not know how you truly feel. neither of you probably want to lead each other on and dont know what to do. so take her aside one day, take her to lunch or something and just talk to each other. hope that everything works out for the both of you and good luck =]

5. Why dont u hook her up with ur cell phone number and ask for hers to. Ask her if she wants to go hang with u and then take her some where.

6. let your primitive instincts take over club her over the head and take her back to your room like a caveman. smash!!!!

7. Don't think you're going to sleep with her. Are you kidding? You think you can hit a home run with her? You want to tell her you love her. Do you even know her besides her being in your dance club? You think it's going to happen that fast? If so, then just straight out ask her to hang out with you. I don't believe you guys will move too quickly. Tell her what you like about her, her personality.

8. be yourself, be straightfoward with her and tell her how your feeling. dont make it so hard on yourself, your probably a little nervous about asking her thats why you need some help, but i know that everyone is scared of being rejected or having nothing more than being friends with that person. dont just say i love you and will you go out with me. say something like you care for her and you have feelings towards her that are more than just a friend and you were wondering if there was any chance that she might feel the same way. she's probably also a little scared to say something to you thats why nothing goes further between the two of you besides flirting because she might not know how you truly feel. neither of you probably want to lead each other on and dont know what to do. so take her aside one day, take her to lunch or something and just talk to each other. hope that everything works out for the both of you and good luck =]