So my "friend" was really making me mad all week and ignoring me for her boyfriend and totaly ditching me when hes around...and i understand its her boyfriend but still i never see her anymore. And so the other day her and my other freind decided we were all going to go out to eat for lunch and i said i would go but then they both didnt have money and no one else was going so i say "im not going" and they freak out and get mad saying that i said that if im not going then no one is and that the only reason i wasnt going was becuase my boyfreind wasnt going (which wasnt true) and they were saying that i just like to start drama so i finaly just blew up on my freind and said that shes the on who is always ditching ppl for her bf and i got mad at both of them for saying everything they said. And now all my friends have heard they're side of the story and they won't listen to me and they say im over reacting on the situation....Am !?!?!?!?!
Answers:
1. 8 hours ago
uhh to whoever added the boyfriend thing i would like you to know that i have one (if you would have read carefully you would know that) and i've been dating him for 8 months THANK YOU!
2. give her some space as i think it s over ... try a new friends now
3. no your not they were y should u even bother with them if its there fault
4. i think your all acting child like. why don't you go and get yourself a boyfriend.
5. I think that what you did was perfectly normal. I know that it can be really annoying, and i have learned not to do it. Instead, tell your friends, very calmly that you didn't mean to blow up at them at all, and that you are really sorry. Say that you were just getting pissed because of this friend who was ditching you. If you say it very apologeticly and mean it, then (if they are your TRUE friends) they will forgive you. Thats what I would do, and try to be nice to them. And also, once you repair the relationships, try to tell this girl whos ditching you what she's doing wrong, because she has got to learn to stop too.
Thats it, good luck, hope it gets better.
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