well i like this guy and he goes to my gym
well yesterday me my cousins HIM and his sister were all playing vollyball
well he was totally flirting with my cousin and she like 4 years older than him and shes really pretty
i like him but i think he likes my cousin what should i do??????
please give me some reasonable answers
thank you :)
Answers:
1. hold back...see what happens. keep trying to interact in group settings and see if he really IS what you are looking for
2. its not a soap opera. you cant make people see the light that easily. if you like him and you think he likes your cousin talk to either of them about it. you a big girl you should be able to talk adultly.
3. It is obvious that he prefers your cousin so don't have your hopes high cause you may be disappointed.
4. nothing....let fate decide
Unless you want to hate your cousin forever because she took "your guy!" Find someone else thats hott!
5. man, that sucks......=(
i agree with the first guy, just get to know him more, and who knows, maybe he'll turn out to be a real jerk and ull get over him!
or maybe u could talk to ur cousin about it, and tell her that u really like him and tell her to back off!! (lol, just kidding!) tell her nicely - plus, if ur a teen, four years older is kinda a lot - its like a 13 yr old going out with a 17 yr old - thats a big difference! (BUT, thats just my opinion)
hope i helped! good luck =)
6. Play it cool never make yourself look desperate. You cant make him notice you more. There are a lot of men in life that you may find attractive and they never check you out. If you see him again maybe he'll come and talk to you. If he does, and all he talks about is your cousin then you know theres no chance. And what if yall did hook up and then when your cousin comes around he starts flirting with her again. You deserve to be special, and a man needs to know that.
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