i am 13 and in 8th grade my brother is 10 and in 5th grade. my brother wants to go trick or teating with me and my freinds see im telling him if he brings 1 freind with him he can com e with us so atleast he has someone to talk to and he wont bother us that much. im afraID HE GOING TO GET BOARD AND START CRYING ( HE DOES THAT ALOT) my parent want me to bring him but if he brings 1 freind he can come with us what shouyld i do or he could go with my 6 year old sister and my parents. i thinks hes old enough to realize that he cant hang out with me and my freinds i mean doesent he have his own freinds he actully does have alot of freinds but he doesent want to bring theam What should i do?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Answers:
1. Tell him if he really wants to go with you, he must bring a friend, or else he won't have fun. And if he is a pain, he will have to go home.
2. Say 'If your a nuisance, you leave.'
3. You should like tell him that if hes going with you bring a friend cuz hes gonna get bored
4. dang ur a bad brother!!! no offence. but ur brother is lonely and ur upset ad dont wanna bring him along? well thats juss mean.. in 12 and my bro is 16 and he wouldnt mind taking me... idc what so ever..... your his big brother if u dont care about him how will, huh? exactly answer that first then ask the same question to ur self and see whats the answer..
5. I think you're right. He will get bored and the idea of him bringing a friend of his along is an excellent one. There may not be that many years of age difference between the two of you, but there is a world of difference between a fifth grader and a bunch of eigth graders. He will definitely feel left out.
6. I used to tell my brother he could go trick or treating with me but if he cried I would eat all his candy. He never cried.
7. That sounds fair enough! Spoken like a true politician, you gave him a choice! 1. Go T&T with you and your friends, but he must bring a friend. 2. If no friend is chosen or is available to go, he must go with Parents & sister.
I think you should stick to your guns on this matter.
I think you are a good older brother, and you are teaching him about choices, even if he doesn't understand it yet.
8. Let him come with you!
Your his big sister/brother, he looks up to you and wants to spend some quality time with you.
You mentioned the fact that he has lots of mates, so it's not that he doesn't have anyone to bring.
I think the reason he doesn't want to bring a friend is because it's you he wants to talk to, not his friend.
And he knows that if his friend is there, he will be expected to talk to him and not you.
I'm sure he wouldn't start crying just because he's bored.
Are you sure you don't upset him?
I think, that you think of your little brother as a little pain.
I would love it if my little sister wanted to come somewhere with me.
You really should make the most of it. The older they get, the less time they have for you. One day, he will stop wanting to come out with you and you will really miss the times when he wanted to hang out with you.
9. Have him bring the friend, otherwise he has to go with mom and dad....less for you to have to deal with then....
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