I was at a dance friday night and my best friend Brittany is dating this guy , cody. They were dancing near the end of the dance , both were totally sober. I saw them dancing then went to sit on the stage with my bf, when brittany comes over shes like bawling her eyes out. so we went for a 'walk' around the gym and she told me she made out with cody. So I asked her what was wrong with that .. she said she was afraid he would think that they could go further , and she said she didnt know if she even wanted to get with em. I told her to say to him all that and she said no because she was afraid that he'd be mad. she never got with anyone before and she said she liked gettin with em but she didnt want him to take it the wrong way.
Today there was a whole bunch of rumors going around about her and him , he wasnt there because he had the day off. it really upset her. Should I tell cody about all of it , it's really messen brittany up and Cody is one of the best guys I know. I know he'd be
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1. 9 hours ago
sweet about everything. She's really worried tho. She knows better but .. shes just freaking a little. She's sleepin over friday , and there's a hockey game were all going too before that so she'll see him there and in school tomorow .. what should I do ?
2. No - don't get involved because then your name will be in it too. She's a big girl, you don't have to do everything for her. Tell her to ask him about it
3. don't talk to cody about it b/c then she might feel like u are going behind her back. She told u that in confidence. If she wants him to know, she would have u say something for her, or tell him herself. Just be a good friend and listen to her. But she def. shouldn't feel like she is pressured into not being able to say no. Just talk to her, ask her if she wants you to hang around her so they never get a chance to be alone, until she can muster up the courage to tell him how she feels. She should not feel ashamed to take it slow. Remind her of that. Good luck.
4. i agree...she's a big girl and u shouldn't get involved. sure she may be your best friend but sometimes when situations like that go bad, u could get sucked into it even more even if u didn't do anything wrong. u should tell her to talk to him. like everyone says...communication is the one of the keys to a relationship...
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