Do we have such low self worth that we can't see their flaws and think we can't get anyone better? What is our issue and for those of us who HAVE actually fallen in love with guys that absolutely do NOT love us back, how do we make ourselve fall out of love with them and what actions do we need to take to show ourselves and those guys we ARE stronger then we appear to be? I could use ANYONES advice at the moment so please, be kinda and realize this is a real question and a real issue I personally am dealing with. Thanks for yoru time in answering..
Answers:
1. I'm still trying to find the answers to these questions :'(
2. Those are good questions that only you should answer for yourself.
Biology is the reason this happens to most women. This also means that most women cannot help it. So if that's the case for you, then no matter what you do, you'll not escape the trap. Sorry to tell you the truth.
3. Just imagine the whole relationship is fake, remember love is only an illusion...
4. Hi, you need to work on your self esteem. I was with this guy about 10 years ago that treated me worse than a dog, I got some new friends that made me realize I was way too good for this idiot. I ended up dumping him and found an awesome guy that I wound up marrying ( 8 years now). It will be hard but you know you deserve better. I don't think it is love you feel so much as need. Once you get rid of htis guy you will begin to feel better about yourself and in the future won't take crap from anyone and find a nice guy.
5. there are many reasons, some think they can get the guy to change, some fall in love instead of growing in love, yet once hurt self esteem is lost and the feeling that I cant do any better sets in.
face it its time for a change to this kind of broken heart
I waited to answer your questions
I was hurt about your x husband cheating and the pain you went through, and a new guy you give marriage benifits too without his true friendship, getting you for less than nothing even expecting you to learn sports before he will be 'more than a friend' with you.
you need to find a good guy who will grow into a true friend to grow in love with as an equal to be adored
a guy who uses another will get all they can and give the least possible
you need to raise your self esteem and see that your worth true love, life commitment on paper, and relax to find it, and not give in to emotional abuse
David in amazing grace and God's truest love, John chapters 3 & 10 for the more abundant life, the sweet pea
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