He looks at other young women alot., he is enthralled by them and when he gets to know a girl, he is enthralled by her personality. He just loves women too much. HELP !
Answers:
1. well the only way you can drag your husbands attention off woman to yourself is by prayer.
It seems to me that you need to trust him.
2. Eh, rip his eyeballs out?
3. Sounds like he is definately not marriage material and needs to grow up. You could start doing the same thing to him. Or you could get rid of him. That would make me mad. If he's not going to pay any attention to you, then what is marriage anyway??? He isn't going to stop. Does he know it bothers you? You need to do some serious thinking.
4. Another Generation X relationship problem?
Divorce him early or kill him.
5. ah there's nothing you can do. maybe point out young hot guys...or older hot guys...or when he oggling another girl make a nice comment about her and see how the attention goes off her , to you.
6. just let him go. do not even bother.
7. HAVE LOTS OF SEX
8. it seems that you may need to tell him how you are feeling and that how you feel disrespected when this is done in your presence and it is unacceptable - however, you can best believe he will do this behind your back - just tell him you would appreciate it if he do not make such comments in front of you - good luck
9. He was a bad choice for a husband so you either have to get counseling so that he sees that has to stop, or you need a better husband.
10. oh girl say no more my ex was like the exorcist with the way his head turned everytime a pair of **** walked by it was awful caused alot of resentment you won't change him if you've talked to him about this and he still it knowing it bothers you he does'nt respect you and it will only get worse with age
11. The only women he should love is you. You need to get rid of your womanizing husband.
12. To be loved, be lovable. - Ovid
If he enjoys looking at women (and quite frankly, I don't think he's the only one on the planet guilty of that), make sure that you can compete with them. As long as you are doing what you can to be pleasing to him, then there's not much more you can do.
If that doesn't work, fight fire with fire. Start looking at younger men. Let him squirm for a little bit. Then once he realizes what its like to be on the other side, maybe the two of you can discuss some ground rules about what it appropriate for opposite sex friends, etc.
13. If he has to look.... It's okay to look and not touch. He does come home to you correct. You can't stop any man from looking.
14. I feel for you, but the reality is YOU can do nothing to change HIS behavior.
Make your choice and stand by it -- with or without him.
Blessings.
15. Did this just start or did you know how he was before you married him?
I guess you need to let him know it bothers you and then if he doesn't quit, you have some hard choices to make.
16. How did you keep him from "being soo girlcrazy" before you were married? If he was like this before you married, why did you marry him if it was such a problem?
17. midlife crisis?
18. I guarantee if you give him daily blowjobs and daily anal sex, he will not have the energy to look at them. You need to be the best he has ever had in every way, because males are hardwired to find the best, and create offspring with them.
You can take that issue up with the creator, your man isn't doing this to spite you.
I can guarantee you are not in tune with what he needs, and he is probably not in tune with what you need...
When you see a pretty flower, do you try to deny it? Why don't you stop to smell a weed? What makes a weed a weed? What makes it bad? Do you stop to look and possibly smell it? Or do you only stop for the pretty ones? Is it possible for a dog to walk right by a juicy steak? Is it possible for a woman to walk past a Manolo Blahnik 90% off shoe display sale?
Does he give you what you need? Maybe you 2 need to have a discussion of what those things are to you individually...
Most importantly, let him be a man, it is a beautiful and natural thing. Unfortunately, so is being jealous, controlling, and having a catty attitude as a female.
Good Luck.
19. well the only way you can drag your husbands attention off woman to yourself is by prayer.
It seems to me that you need to trust him.
20. Eh, rip his eyeballs out?
21. Sounds like he is definately not marriage material and needs to grow up. You could start doing the same thing to him. Or you could get rid of him. That would make me mad. If he's not going to pay any attention to you, then what is marriage anyway??? He isn't going to stop. Does he know it bothers you? You need to do some serious thinking.
22. Another Generation X relationship problem?
Divorce him early or kill him.
23. ah there's nothing you can do. maybe point out young hot guys...or older hot guys...or when he oggling another girl make a nice comment about her and see how the attention goes off her , to you.
24. just let him go. do not even bother.
25. HAVE LOTS OF SEX
26. it seems that you may need to tell him how you are feeling and that how you feel disrespected when this is done in your presence and it is unacceptable - however, you can best believe he will do this behind your back - just tell him you would appreciate it if he do not make such comments in front of you - good luck
27. He was a bad choice for a husband so you either have to get counseling so that he sees that has to stop, or you need a better husband.
28. oh girl say no more my ex was like the exorcist with the way his head turned everytime a pair of **** walked by it was awful caused alot of resentment you won't change him if you've talked to him about this and he still it knowing it bothers you he does'nt respect you and it will only get worse with age
29. The only women he should love is you. You need to get rid of your womanizing husband.
30. To be loved, be lovable. - Ovid
If he enjoys looking at women (and quite frankly, I don't think he's the only one on the planet guilty of that), make sure that you can compete with them. As long as you are doing what you can to be pleasing to him, then there's not much more you can do.
If that doesn't work, fight fire with fire. Start looking at younger men. Let him squirm for a little bit. Then once he realizes what its like to be on the other side, maybe the two of you can discuss some ground rules about what it appropriate for opposite sex friends, etc.
31. If he has to look.... It's okay to look and not touch. He does come home to you correct. You can't stop any man from looking.
32. I feel for you, but the reality is YOU can do nothing to change HIS behavior.
Make your choice and stand by it -- with or without him.
Blessings.
33. Did this just start or did you know how he was before you married him?
I guess you need to let him know it bothers you and then if he doesn't quit, you have some hard choices to make.
34. How did you keep him from "being soo girlcrazy" before you were married? If he was like this before you married, why did you marry him if it was such a problem?
35. midlife crisis?
36. I guarantee if you give him daily blowjobs and daily anal sex, he will not have the energy to look at them. You need to be the best he has ever had in every way, because males are hardwired to find the best, and create offspring with them.
You can take that issue up with the creator, your man isn't doing this to spite you.
I can guarantee you are not in tune with what he needs, and he is probably not in tune with what you need...
When you see a pretty flower, do you try to deny it? Why don't you stop to smell a weed? What makes a weed a weed? What makes it bad? Do you stop to look and possibly smell it? Or do you only stop for the pretty ones? Is it possible for a dog to walk right by a juicy steak? Is it possible for a woman to walk past a Manolo Blahnik 90% off shoe display sale?
Does he give you what you need? Maybe you 2 need to have a discussion of what those things are to you individually...
Most importantly, let him be a man, it is a beautiful and natural thing. Unfortunately, so is being jealous, controlling, and having a catty attitude as a female.
Good Luck.
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