this is the relationship i treasured most. i love him so much. he is very nice to me n sweet .he nvr changed since we were together.in my eyes he is the greatest.we r both 100% faithful n nice towards each other but..
we always quarrel abt every single thing. i dun mind quarreling.i can improve it but the worst part is, he CONTROL me too much.almost everythin. i cant hang out with my classmates(guys) even with girls ard which i know them for 4yrs alr n they all have this gfs too.i can;t go clubbing(dancin is my passion) i can't be a model.even when i work part time jobs,he worry that ther will be guys in the office.what m i suppose to do?he is in the army now n i can only meet him during weekends.n wkdaes r like facing the wall everyday. wkends r like washin his clothes,massagin him,ironin his uniforms(though i dun mind).sometimes,i try to understand tat cos he love me too much so i bear with it. but i think i m like a dog actually.i have talk to him alr.it doesnt work.pls help me
Answers:
1. He treats you like you're his dog, but according to you, he's nice to you and sweet. How does that make sense? Time to face reality, I think, and to stop allowing yourself to be walked all over.
2. Tell him to loosen up the leash a little bit. He's got you whipped hunny. That's ridiculous. You should be able to go out and have fun when he's not around. Talk to him. Let him know that you need YOU time. Sounds to me like he doesn't trust you.
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