My boyfriend suddently stopped calling me and answering my calls. Its been two months today so i assume its his way of ending the relationship.
I have talked to his friends and they tell me he is ok ( they've been hanging out with him) but will say nothing more.
We live in different towns and i don't wanna go to his place to find him coz i am so uncertain and proud too.
I am deeply hurt and keep askin myself why he would end the relationship like this.
Answers:
1. 9 hours ago
Why didn't he call and end it officially?
2. Another woman.
3. It sounds like he has found someone else. You are better off without this guy, he could have at least given you an explanation.
4. Well, he doesn't sound like a very good guy if he will end a relationship this way. Sounds like you are better off now. I had a bf end a relationship badly and it only took me a few days to figure out I was probably just better off. I got to see what kind of a person he really was, and he was a coward. I didn't want a man who couldn't face his problems.
5. Babe I'm so sorry he's doing this to you, and frankly; he obviously still a child and hasn't grown up... I'm so sorry that your relationship has ended so badly.
Now, "Why would somone end a relationship in this manner?" Because he's an asswhole who doesn't know how to respect those around him, forget him; he's not worth your time of day!
6. I feel ya..But..His in miltary so way different situation.Maybe he just need's space and time.Men can be such girls and so moody.I mean it good way.Male PMS..
Is hard but if his going to break up he would but not wait that long to be doin so-when ppl break up-they do it fast so they can move on and be "Single again"
His not going to break up with ya..His just acting shady bc..his a man..and sometimes they are like that..and not very commuincate like we women..and sometimes they are wrong..when they do it..but..be patient..and honest and tell him..if he wants you yes or no..to save your time and sanity
good luck
bebe"-
7. Sounds like he's not man enough to tell you the truth! The hurt will go away and you will look back realize you are better off in the long wrong!!
8. Yes, it happened to me too, it's been months and I never heard from him again. I know you have many questions and so did I, what helped me get through it was that at least I know he was not as good as I thought he was.
9. he s no good .. if he wanted to brake up he should have told you ...sorry it has been this way .. but you will find a new bf soon ..as it s in the stars... for you.. good luck..
10. Sounds like he didn't care enough to talk to you about it. Maybe he's ashamed about something, or maybe he has poor manners, who knows. You deserve better. If he does not want to date you, you need to wait for someone who does. Be good to yourself.
11. because he's stupid and a chicken. just let the guy do his own thing. he doesn't deserve you! you are so much better with out him because he obviously didn't care enough to even say goodbye. and even if he did, i know it wouldn't feel better, but now you just need to go out and have fun. make new friends, meet new guys. word will get around to him and he'll probably realize what an idiot he was but don't take him back! he's a closed chapter in your life. and remember this: you are too precious to be treated that way! set your standards on how a guy is going to treat you and don't settle for anything less! believe me you'll be happier in the end. because he doesn't deserve you. and most of all you deserve better! the right guy is just waiting for you to find him. just open your eyes and forget the chicken! best wishes!
12. he found another, but do not wish to say it is his fault that led to the breakup. he is just avoiding explaining to you and just want to move on. stop loving him. you are better without him.:)
13. After he left you with nary a word, how can there be any doubt in your mind about what you have to do next? Isn't he just the perfect poster boy for jerks? You're alone and you're free to do whatever you want to do with your life. Don't you know that the other definition of freedom is "when there's nothing more to lose?"
Honestly, it looks like he has his own world now, and whatever it is that you thought you have to know is clearly non of your business since he doesn't care a hoot about you anymore! I know you love this man, but, if there is no sign that he feels the same way for you, then I don't see any reason why you have to pursue your feelings for him.
The reason why you refuse to let go of a person you love is because you are afraid to be alone. But if that person doesn't love you anymore, then being with him doesn't make any difference. The real essence of a relationship lies in the commitment of two people, and not just one. It lies in the basic foundation of love that is shared by two and not just felt by one.
Don't torture yourself asking "Why?" Stop it already. He's not worth your time and effort. As to what wise thing you'll say to this guy when he shows up? Tell him to go jump and shake hands with the devil!
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