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Should I try to make things work out, or just give up on this guy?

   
well me n dis boy r friends but b4 we got 2 b friends he told my friend 2 try 2 hook him up wit sum random girl dat he thought wus pretty. i didnt care cus i aint like him. den i found out dat she aint lyk him.den he started being nice 2 me n i started 2 lyk him. he started kinda actin lyk he liked me 2 but he aint wanna show it. DEN one day my friend told me dat he asked him if he lyked me n he told him dat he does. BUT dat same day he wus ignoring me n talkin n flirting wit dat stupid girl dat he used 2 lyk, so i wus soooo confused!! cus i wus hearing dat he lyks me but he dnt really act lyk it. but he always comes eats lunch wit me everyday. is he juss trying VERY hard not 2 show dat he really lyks me or does he really not lyk me?? n one day he told my friend dat he wus happy dat somethin happened 2 him instead of it happing 2 me cus it could of happened 2 me, n he wouldnt have wanted me 2 et embarresed. so i dunno wut he's feelin bout me. should i try 2 get ova him or not? plz help

Answers:

1. Get rid of him...

2. feelings come and go so maybe you should just tell him...

3. Get ovah gurl. His ego or pride are crowning him. He will just put you to shame or make you frustrate. So why not spend time to that kind of guy that just messing up your day. He might like you but he should strong enough to show it to you and treat you right or special among the others. Im afraid that he's just playing or experimenting your emotion. You dont have to hate him but be yourself. Relax. TELL YOURSELF " I WILL NOT SPEND MY PRECIOUS TIME WITH A GUY WHO IS NOT SURE IF HE WANTS ME OR HAS A FEAR TO SHOW TO OTHERS THAT HE LIKES ME. OR HE LET ME FEEL THAT IM REJECTED OR WHO IS NOT CLEARLY A GOOD, KIND, LOVING PERSON......" wink*! ('',)