There is this guy in my Geography class I just met two months ago. At first he was shy, and now we seem to get along a bit more.It still hasn't been very long so there hasn't been much time to talk except in class. He now waits for me after class finishes and I have started to sit beside him in class. We ususally talk about class and maybe ask each other what we did in the weekends. I have catch him looking my way, but I can't tell if he's watching me or just happens to be looking my way. He doesn't ever contact me after class for anything else. My friends and I are going clubbing this week (he doesn't know them) and have suggested that I invite him, yet I don't know since I think it'll be too soon for him to meet my friends. So I have thought about asking him to a movie. Yet I don't know if I should since a) I don't know if he likes me, b) I don't want to make him think that I am coming to strong on him. What should I do? Could he like me or maybe he is just being nice?
Answers:
1. It's a movie, not marriage. Ask him.
2. Even if he just wants to be friends, ask him anyway!
Just be casual. Something like "Hey, me and my friends are going to some club that's supposed to be great.. Wanna come?" You can even suggest that he brings some of his friends along too.. Groups merge, relationships form, who knows! By suggesting he bring along a friend or two of his just means that things won't get awkward if your attention is on your friends for a bit. I just know it's a sh*tty thing when you're in a massive group and he's just sitting there while your attention is diverted, even for a little bit, especially if he does like you.
Then again, he could just ignore you if his friends are there, but chances are if he's a nice guy it won't happen, and if it does, he's not worth it anyway!
Goodluck, hope things work out.
3. A girl can never come on strong. Guys love girls that initiate things. Well I don't know this guy but if you really like him, you have to accept that he is shy. Do you think this guy goes clubbing too? Maybe but you don't know. Shy guys usually don't know what else to talk about besides school. Just ask him if he wants to hang out with you. Don't introduce him to your friends yet.
4. he may like you. the best thing to do is invite him with your friends first. get to know him with friends (witnesses)
5. He likes you. Don't invite him to go clubbing with your friends. Ask him to do something-anything-away from school, with nobody else around. Let him open up to you before he gets exposed to your friends.
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