there is this girl that i reely reely like and i am shy i dont know if she likes me she talks to me somtime but i think that she is kinda shy too how would i get to be a closer freind and start dating her or just become a good freind i am in 8th grade
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1. I am in 8th grade too. i think that you should get to know her more and learn more about her. but if you know her than start up conversasions with her
2. im in the eighth grade too
i know how you feel .. i like this boy in mah school but a girl asked him out and another girl likes him and shes my friend and i don;t want to be to obvious that i like him...
juss get to know her get to talk with her when you get a chance that way ur both interacting all the time and form a bond...
i don't know mah sistah told me to write all dat crap.. LOL
3. ask her to sit with you at lunch
4. Well it won't work if there's no communication. If you have any classes with her, or in any clubs with her start chatting with her. You could always start by complimenting her, nothing extravagant just say something like, "I love that outfit," Or, "Love the shoes" Something like that or ask how her day was and stuff. Make small talk and then gradually you guys will start becoming closer and maybe close enough to exchange digits. The rest builds up from there. And if you guys get close - one of you make the move and ask one another out.
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5. Ah little one. Just concentrate on being an awesome guy, talk to her more, find things you have in common, do a your-group her-group get together at the movies or something.. Even if she's shy, she'll be grateful if you make the first move, even as a friend! Communication is the key.
6. Well first of all get over approach anxiety, which is being nervous to talk to her. There are alot of ways to do this, but at your age it may be harder to practice. Think of it this way. You are the most interesting person in the world and she is luck to have you consider talking to her. Basiclly more important than what you say to her, it's how you say it. Be loud (not yelling but dont whisper or mumble), smile and be confident. Have good body language, like when sitting lean back and always take up space, not obnoxiouslly, but make yourself known. Use fluff talk at first, like talking about interests, whats she wants to do when she grows up etc. GOLDEN RULE: NEVER tell her you like her, keep her guessing, and that will keep her interested. GL to you! PM me if you want more specifics, i'm keeping it pretty broad in this post.
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