i asked him if he was dating another person. he said no. but now im thinking about dating another man myself. should i update him about it? i really like him but like he said we are just dating and i want to know whats out there. any thoughts?
Answers:
1. 9 hours ago
its not low or hoe like to date more than one person at a time. i havent jumped into it yet so im just asking. jeez.
2. You Hoe!
3. u ****... if you want to date the other man at least dump your current bf.
4. who cares..an ything is game if you are not married
5. As long as you're not going steady I guess you're all set.
6. date more than one person tell him*
7. Perhaps an open relationship is more for you. I suggest bringing it up with him. :] Good Luck!
8. Tell him the truth!
9. pokey,
Dating is not a commitment.
I say enjoy yourself.
10. Well, if you are only dating and not commited, serious, or sleeping together, I would say it is ok to date.
11. If your both comfortable dateing more then one person, honest about it, not spreading any std's and aren't married...go for it, your just out for a good time..
but ...if you wanta be serious with this guy...perhaps you should minimize the dating others for a while and see where this ends up.
12. Tell him! If he really cares he'll tell you what he thinks.
13. ah yes, the old dating/relationship grey area
don't date another guy, it's disrespectful, if you like him, why would you want to date another guy?
14. nothing wrong with it. he said you are just dating. I would tell him and if he does not say he wants to be exclusive you can go ahead and date others.
15. Yeah it's okay, but you should let him know
16. If you don't have nothing serious...yeah I'm sure you can have friends!!! go and date some nice and cute guys until you are ready... and no.. you are not a hoe....crazy people sometimes here GRRRR have a nice day sweetie
17. Ask him if it's OK to see other people it does not mean it will lead to sex.
18. Bring it up to him so he doesn't think your being sneeky. This will also benefit the relationship by allowing him to be more open with you! GoodLuck!
19. Daaammmmmmmmn
don't be a hoe
20. YES tell him about it -- and make sure he is aware that it doesn't bother you if he dates others either. Think about this .....back in the 50s, etc. people did "date" ..... they got to know different people before deciding on marriage. These days it's like you get stuck with one person (maybe feel in love at the time but no other options either) and therefore what happens? Look at the divorce rate now.
21. if you two are just casually dating, there's no reason why you shouldn't see other people, and spending time with a variety of people (both guys and girls) is the best way to enjoy your single status. however, you MUST be honest with the guy(s) about it. MUST.
22. yes, updating is good. If you dont, that would be like two-timing, or being a player. Go ahead and explore what eles is out there. If you havn't found it now, there more to see so go for it while you still have the time
23. If you guys are just dating then it is okay to see other people. It isn't like you guys are exclusive. As soon as things get serious with someone then you need to break things off with anyone else you may be seeing.
Good luck! I hope this helps.
People, take a chill pill. They are only "dating".
24. hay wat he dont know wont hurt him...no seriously dont besides he might fall deeper in love with you.and if he found out you had another bf he would be upset...and get angry and that would not be good..but wat do i know im just a drunk...
25. dating is dating,,,but not marriage...Some have open relationships and others are just the one couple type..Its all up to you and your boyfriend...I feel it should be open and if you really like someone,,Give them wings and they will return if they really like you back...BUT I would MAKE sure you both do NOT LIE!! that is trouble and not fare..Like i said ,,If they are great for you ,,you won't want to be with anyone else and vice versa!
GOOD LUCK,,,,no vows in dating that I know of..
26. No worries. Im dating a couple but im not steady with neither of them, im just looking, meeting new people, just seeing whats out there. Theres nothing wrong with that. Unless you want something to happen then just stick to that one guy.
27. You should probably ask him what he thinks about the relationship. If it's a serious relationship and if he wants to be serious about it. If that's the case then I would get rid of the idea of the other guy. If you are dating causually then I don't see the problem with seeing another guy. If this is the case you do not need to check with him if it's ok to date someon. Just make sure that he understands that this is a casual relationship. She's not a hoe or playing the field by doing this.
28. Dating two guys at the same time... like the woman who buys two identical birthday cards that both say "to the only man in my life" inside.
If you mean just hanging out and getting to know each other as dating someone, then dating two people isn't the worst thing that can happen.
However, if by dating someone, you mean that you two hold hands, call each other your boy/girlfriend, and kiss, then dating two guys is just being mean and selfish.
Sorry to be so blunt, but when you get to being affectionate towards someone, it shouldn't be towards multiple "someone's". If you want to know what's out there, go out and explore. Just don't keep the current guy you're dating under the impression that you're perfectly content with him and nothing else.
29. Dating two people at a time? Not cool. He might get the wrong impression about you, as many people will. But if you do plan on going through with this escapade, you really do need to tell him. Theres no laws about dating, so you can date whomever and how many people you want at a time.'So go for it, see whats out there, but just let this guy know your intentions, he needs to be informed. Make sure he knows that your just 'dating' as in, casually going out together with emotional intentions, that your not officially together.
30. if you are thinking of wanting to date another guy, you do not love your bf very much. maybe you like him. but not love. so since it is like this, why not go out and date other guys? maybe you can find someone you really love with all your heart. that guy will then be the guy of your life. someone you want to grow old with. cheers.:)
31. Seriously 2 guys that's low, dump him atleast don't go dating 2!!!!
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