okay so i have been in a relationship for a year..
it was fun at first we hang out a lot and all that sweet stuff couples do.. but as days goes by i felt like i am fallin out of love, the feeling like' i want a new one..' then i met a guy whose my classm8 and groupm8 in my p.E. class, damn he's a hearthrob, and all my girls wants him.. he texted me and that time my relationship with my boyfriend is in trouble so when he asked if i am committed i said no because my bf and i just broke up that time.. i've been waiting for him to court me but he's so slow eventually i got tired of waiting for that campus hearthrob and got together with my bf.. but when i already in a relationship again there he was asking me if he can court me..i am confused if i would allow him because i know i like him a lot, and i've been waiting for this chance so long but i am in a relationship.. i want him, i know i really do, but the problem is that i don't want to hurt my boyfriend...
Answers:
1. If you stay in a relationship with your boyfriend but are longing for someone else, you will just end up hurting your bf even more in the end. Try to let him down lightly. Tell him that you really do care about him, but you don't want to continue a relationship that you don't see lasting. You have to do what makes you happy, and even though he will hurt for a while, it will be best to get it over with now.
2. well why stay in a relationship if your not happy and cant completely commit to him id say go for it but let your bf down gently
3. Basically, your bf is a boring bastard..all into the lovey dovey stuff but probably doesn't excite you in the bedroom or does nothing that is spontaneous. I agree that all relationships lose a little bit of that flair after a while, but if your man can't keep things interesting, get a new one. But if you get into the habit of jumping from guy to guy, that notion of finding something new and exciting might have negative side effects if you continue it for years to come. If your bf is a great guy and you love him, maybe you can help you two revive that flame.
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