Am in love with a girl in my college and when i first saw I knew i had to speak to her. i kinda did a little stalking (i have never done that before: I swear) and waited for her to finish work. I had a nice chat with her but she wouldnt give me her number but she said she would take mine but doesnt guarantee she will call me back. i didnt give her my number cos i thought what was the point if she isnt gonna cal me back.(VERY BIG MISTAKE). i spent my whole summer tryin to find where she lived so i could go and talk to her again but that didnt go to plan. Now we are back at college and i dont know what to do. I have seen her once and i had to hide cos i just dont know what to do or say anymore.This affected my result last year cos i couldnt think straight and i feel the same thing will happen if i dont sort this out. I just dont know what to do.
am lost and no where near planet earth. Help me.
Answers:
1. I guess I don't have to tell you that you seem mildly obsessed. I recommend talking to a counselor at school-- it's most likely free and always confidential.
Chances are, you've built up some persona of her in your fantasies that has little to do with the real girl. If you want to shake that free, get some help. Don't ruin your college career over this.
2. Earth to you. Your degree is worth so much more than this girl. If you really wanted to talk to her you would have. You have had too many random chances (well, I wouldn't call them random, I would call them stalking) to talk to her and you don't. Either talk to her or leave her alone. I don't no who is paying for you education but you are making a waste of it. Put your mind to the books. You don't even know if this girl has someone or not?
Get a life!!! You are out on a limb without any help. Either talk to her or leave it alone once and for all. You are in college, not preschool
3. Just go and talk to her and be friendly, maybe next time she'll be more willing to give you her number. But if she's not into you forget about it and go for a girl that will want to be with you as much as you want to be her, and don't neglect your studies, girls come and go, but if you fail your studies that time won't come back.
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