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I just wanted to know if anybody has ever felt like everyone hates you. how should i treat them back??

   
i work for a school and i work with about 50 women. they all seem to either hate me or are jealous of me. i am a nice guy and i try too say good morning and hello too all but i get the stuck up feeling from all or they just dont look my way. even the girl i loved for 6 years even though she is married i still was nice and she a *****. i dont get it please help me understand or what should i do too get back at them?? please help

Answers:

1. How about just leaving them alone?

2. "Haters" will be haters"-Do not let them bother ya-do your thing and screw what they think-I don't hate--let them hate all they want-haters are losers..have nothing better to do..than whine and cry..and ***** about there sad life.. tell them to kiss your ***--lol..for$25 lolll

3. that's just the way it is when you are surround bu all female workers. We had that happen at my old employer and they would drive the men out. I do not agree with it at all. Sorry about this. Either get a new job or grin and bear it. Also if they are singling you out, go to your union..workplace harassment is not allowed.

4. its all in your head no has enuff time to hate you and even if they did that just makes them a bag person just treat people the way you want to be treated and youll get the same thing you put into it out

5. If you are such a nice guy why are you looking at ways to get back at them and calling your ex a nasty name online? MAYBE you aren't as nice as you thought! I would start by trying to be genuinely kind to people--look for ways to help them. Start conversations based on THEIR interests and things that are important to THEM. Don't talk bad about people under any circumstances. This should work if you can stick to it, unless you are REALLY not a nice person and you can't fix it now with these people. Good luck.

6. Everyone feels that way at times.Just remember youre not going to work to make friends youre working for a pay check.Dont worry about it.Do your own thing and forget about the haters.Life is full of people who hate us and want to bring us down to their level.Just remember that youre better than that.Just let them see that you are above their B.S.

7. Don't try to get back at them you will just be hurting yourself. Forget about them and go find other people like you to hang out with. People who understand you will most probably like you. Oh, and make better decisions and choices for yourself - getting hooked up with a married person is rarely going to have a positive outcome for anyone. Forget that other guy's cheating wife and go find your own unattached cool chick, it will be heaps better.

8. The best thing to do is just to let it slide and go about your own buisness. If they feel like being stuck up and childish that is their problem. If they feel like ignoring you and pretending they don't hear you that is their problem. Especially the girl who you loved. If she wants to pretend she doesn't know you, her loss. The best thing to do is wait it out and to try not to get revenge. When you fight fire with fire, all you get is a bigger fire. If the problem continues to a point where you can't take it, consider looking for another job where the people are nicer. Hope this helped! :)

9. well there just complete snobs ignore them and no im not a geek LOL

10. jesus, look from what Ive learned dont be around people who tolerate you, be around people who celebrate you It doesnt matter who you are, or how you act, or what you did everyone has there place of celebration!! so, dont worry about those women, obviously, their something about you, they want!! and cant have that drives them crazy, trust me !! Ive been there and if they hate you, !! just love them back!! but dont be around that kind of negativity!! it can kill you

11. Well honey first of all you s.u.c.k.. Get a life alright. You gotta stop being a coward and be more confident. Try changing your clothing habits and get a cool gizmo or gadget to show off. Also try to be more cool instead of just letting everything go by. You do not use your time in a good way, you let your oppurtunities just go by. Try giving someone a ride to school or buying your way out of it.

12. 1st think of what it is that you are doing that may make them hate you. Having the notion that you should "Get back at them" may be part of your problem. 50 women can't be wrong. Check yourself

13. Well i don't think you should try to get back at them because what goes around comes around you should treat people the way you wish to be treated. I think the best way to get around this is to keep smiling don't let them get the better of you. People will only do to you what you let them. Hate is a strong word to use maybe yes they are jealous of you. keep saying good morning and when they don't say it back you should just say well some people have bees in there bonnet and just laugh it off lol the jokes on them if they chose to be unfriendly or unhappy just keep smiling life is too short to worry about petty people. Rise above them you are better then that.

14. dont agnowledge them any more ignor them dont waste your time trying to say hello if they dont reciprocate they obviously are not friendly.in my opinion there is something you are not telling me.because people dont just not like someone for no reason. oh well if you want to get back at them put apples in thier tail pipes(cars). there is no damage just confussion and its funny.

15. Get back at them???? Please do not let others rule your life. You sound like a nice person, and if others do not react positively to you, please do not be overly sensitve, or read too much into their reactions. If you are truly troubled by their reaction, a simple"Have I offended you? Did I say anything to upset you?" will help to diffuse the situation, Just keep in mind, that there are lots of people who put others down , to build themselves up. Keep your head up. Good luck. As far as geting back, that is a control issue. One can feel out of control, and want to react.. If you are REALLY interested in controlling the situation, find a small gift, and present it to the persons in question, and say " We have not agreed in the past, but I admire your position" Says nothing, but sounds like you are apologising for something. Good luck.