Okay, so this is what happened last sunday:
1. My ex boyfriend (who I haven't hung out with for 2 months) called me wanting to hang out and he wanted to bring his friend brad over too. I know brad and I'm kinda friends with him as well..but I thought it was weird my ex all of a sudden just thought he could come over to my house on a sunday night.. My ex has been texting me on and off and also talks to me sometimes after class at school.....
so my question is what exactly is going on with him?
And also why does he not talk to me all the time? I mean yeah, i know the weight shouldnt all be on him, and sometimes I'll go up and talk to him but other times I just walk hoping he might say hi to me or something and that only happens every so often.....we both are pretty shy. do you think hes intiminated?
Answers:
1. I have no idea just be careful! can you trust him still?
2. He should be
3. hes dumb
4. he want's to get back together...
5. y,, e .s
6. Where's number two?
7. hmm just a wild guess..3way.
8. If he is trying to hang out with you all of a sudden he is probably interested again. Just remember though, your ex is your ex for a reason.
9. Tacky. If you want him back say so. If not tell him its over and he does not need to call and text you anymore.
10. No, Ithink you have a low self-esteem and need to move on. Keep it sweet and short.
11. its actually spelled, intimidated...... he either may be up to some shinanagans or he really misses you and want to rebuild the friendship.
12. I would be wary around him. I'm not sure if he still likes you, but it's very suspicious of him to want to communicate with you when he feels like it. I dont think he has a regard for your feelings.
13. Maybe you should channel your energy toward your schoolwork. You may feel this is an important issue now, but you are getting all caught up in this garbage and not focusing on what is important; your future.
14. I think you are really over anylising the situation. I suggest to try to let things play out however they will, and just see what happens. If you're still interested in him, however, what's holding you back from starting some friendly conversation? He doesn't have to begin speaking to you first to make it meaningful :] I hope things turn out well.
15. maybe he just wants to be friends or might want u back like jackson 5. but i don't know him
16. No I just think that he feels weird about seeing u and is trying to rebuild a friendship
17. Maybe the best solution to this problem would be to just come straight out and ask him. I know this can be a bit scary but trust me it'll make everything much clearer. Explain to him that his actions are confusing you and that you don't want to get hurt, if he really cares about you he will appreciate your honesty and courage.
18. nothing good will come of this. why did he include his friend. you may face an unpleasant situation soon so stop all this.
19. Nope, I think he is inconsiderate and can't do anything without impressing his friends...guess what your not his only GF. Ask him, I'll bet you Lunch.
btw how do I collect if I'm right?
20. I think he might still like you. I also think hes pretty intimidated. It sort of depends on whether it was you or him that ended the relationship.
21. My ex does the same thing. He flips from talking to me regularly, to hating me and not even looking up when I'm around. Yes, I still like him, but I just try to avoid getting close again. There's a reason why we broke up! I recommend the same thing for you. Be friendly, but not TOO friendly, if you get my drift.
22. Well, you know him. Is he shy? If so, that may be it and maybe he needed his buddy with him to come over? Or maybe his friend likes you? I don't know just a thought. Maybe just try not thinking about these feelings and motives and just be yourself. If you have time speak to him, if not go on by. Let it happen or not but only you and he can talk this out if it is to be really figured out. Maybe just ask him if you have to know and want to be positive and maybe take the pressure off him? Maybe ask in a teasing manner, gives you a way out.
23. I think that maybe he is just trying to be friends with you. At first the friendship will be a little awkward but you really need to stop reading into it. If you truly just want to be his friend then just go with it and don't question it. After all you two no longer are in an intimate relationship and he doesn't need to answer to you nor do you need to answer to him. So just treat him as you would a friend and realize that sometimes you have time for your friends and sometimes you don't. But no matter what the situation is when you do it is just cool to hang out and have fun together.
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