I'm seeing someone and we have been on a handful of dates and have slept together but we are not really together as in girlfriends. My issue is last week I kissed another girl(turned out to be a disaster) and I'm not sure if I'm supposed to tell her. And I also think the girl that I've been seeing maybe a little ahead of herself in terms of where she thinks our relationship is. Would you say anything if you were in my situation?
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1. 9 hours ago
my issue is I think she thinks we are couple but I certainly don't.
2. No. What would be the point?
3. Isn't sleeping together, most often than not, preceived as a form of 'committment'?
It is seen that way by most heterosexual couples. Probably not any different for same-sex couples.
Don't be sleeping with someone unless that person is "IT" in your heart. All you're doing is being selfish.
101607 7:40
4. i think you should tell her, even though ur not officially a couple because i think they would like to know even though she might not be too happy about it. She would still like the fact that you told her.
5. this girl is going to hate you if you don't tell her later and believe me she WILL find out and guess who is going to be in trouble. I rather have a guy tell me the truth then for me to find out later that my bf cheated on me. And if you have slept together you definaltly GF and BF! Aparently u dont care and love your GF because if u did you wouldn't be kissing other girls. So maybe you shouldnt have a GF period!!!! good luck trying to find a Wife because i wouldn't marry u worth heck! even if you just kissed another girl thats still cheating!
6. i think you should tell her she deserves to know and if ou don't tell her then she may find out some other way
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