Why does that not work?????

1. It ia always easier to say I can't than to say I will Don't take marriage lightly

2. My first husband and I got married young....After marriage we found out I couldn't have kids...He wanted kids and so he left me.....Yes I remarried but, I made sure it was to a man who knew I couldn't have kids and he was ok with it.....We adopted a boy and are a very happy family......

3. That's a sin, so no, and you need to be open and honest communicate.also go to church and seek counseling from your pastor before you get married. pre-marital counseling.

4. IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES

5. You have to make sure that you are getting married for the right reasons to begin with. Marriage isnt the be all end all of love. If you are happy just being together, then why do you need a piece of paper to validate that? When you can think about marriage with woman you love and not be swamped with worries or insecurites, then you will know it is the right time. Dont feel pressured to this if you are not ready, it will just escalate into other issues after you marry. I wish you all the best in love and life..Peace.

6. There could be many reasons why it doesn't work. Don't get married if you have doubts about it now. Don't waste her time though either if she thinks you are the one. Yes I would re-marry. Its not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.

7. I got married for all the right reason and it did not work out bcoz my husband turned into an emotional abuser. It took me a very long time to understand and when i did we got a divorce. I am not sure if it could have been avoided bcoz you cannot change someone. I tried to work on saving five years of marriage by working on it for another two years before absolutely decided about the divorce. He just wouldn't change and to make it worse, his mother moved in with us. Dealing with two abusers was impossible. I am hoping to meet someone nice and definetely look forward to being happy in life again.

8. Marriage USED to work and there were almost no divorces, except for the few adulturous (and even some of those lasted). My view is that people back then were willing to WORK for marriage. Now, people just think the other person is supposed to make them happy and, when they can no longer do so due to boredom/annoying habits/something tough in life, the marriage is broken and lives are strewn about. I believe we need to work harder. 50% marriages divorce. 60% of second marriages divorce. Those are 5 year old statistics.

9. I'm getting divorced for many reasons. First, he changed after the vows were taken. He was a loving and devoted boyfriend and after I said I do he expected me to be just a wife, take care of him, the kids and the house. I was not allowed, yes I said allowed, to do anything for myself. By that I mean, girls night out mean a fight, getting my hair done meant I needed to find a babysitter, any time for myself was neglecting my family. Verbal abuse was followed by fits of anger where he would throw things, the last thing broken was the computer monitor. The icing on the cake was his emotional (possibly physical) affair with another woman. We tried counseling, I tried talking with him and trying to make it work, he has never admitted any wrong doing and I can not tolerate infidelity. Yes, I would remarry. But next time I will take the advice from my family and friends. Being in love often clouds your judgement, sometimes those close to you are able to see things that you cant. Advice for things to look for? You have to be best friends with the person you plan to marry. Sex is great but there will be dry spells that leave the two of you sitting on the couch with nothing to do but talk. If you have nothing in common there is little to fill the gaps.