The story goes like this: My first relationship ended in Feb. We were together for a year plus. Since then, I did msg him a few times and nearly met up sometime ago..But I decided to back out because I wasn't sure how he felt and wasn't sure if I had really moved on. I was afraid to find out that he had moved on and I had not. We didn't contact each other eversince.
Recently, I added him back on Msn (we didn't chat, practically ignored each other presence) I clicked on his nick last nite and saw that he was using one of my fav. picture as his display picture. Could this mean something? Why Am I still bothered by such little things? Am I still in love with him? Btw, I'm 22 years old but still inexperienced when it comes to relationship matters.
Answers:
1. 9 hours ago
He stays on Msn during all his free time. he hardly goes out and has little friends anyway
2. I think the best thing is to talk to him about it, but if he has moved on (as is probably the case after all this time) it's probably best to block him again on MSN and move on.
3. omg.....i was shocked when u said MSN! thats only computer and u dont know if its real......
better go outside,escape virtual world and connect with real life people ok???
4. girl, it is time to move on. it has been so long already. feb till now. it's almost end of the year already. you are making yourself miserable when you keep yourself in the past. there is always the future to look forward to. learn to let go. you will find a happier you and life will be beautiful. if you guys are destined to be together, you will be one day. :)
5. I think since he was your first relationship the feelings you have for him will always be there. I mean the first guy that I feel in love with cheated on me and threatened me and theres still that part of me that knows I will always have feelings for him.
I think there are lots of little triggers that bring up the memories of people we just have to learn to ignore them or work them out. If you believe you still have feelings for him id say go for it. If you are afraid that hes moved on just start out by being friends if possible so you can guage where you stand with him.
You just need to think what would be best for you. Would it be better to be friends and know nothing might ever happen or to cut off all contact completely and continue with moving on.
6. I think you just miss him and still love him down inside.
Everyone goes thru it :) Try not to think about him so much as an ex-lover.. it will make you miss him deep down. Try to let him go :)
7. Im pretty sure that you stll love him, on his part i can see that he also feel the same way, only that your not talking to each other, you need to talk and set things right..
8. Im sorry about what your going through. I know how you feel. Its happend to me before. First of all you need to figure out if you still like him... do you think about him 24/7? Do you keep thinking about the time you were going out? If so you probably might... if you think you do you have to figure out if you would get back with him if he asked you out again. And about the pictuer...i think it might be a sighn... :-) and wat i do to figure out if a guy likes me is just to ask.... im just bold like that. But still sometimes i get a friend of mine to slowly bring up the conversation with him. Not mentioning you told them to do it or anything. Well I hope this helps a little. I know how you feel and like i said im sorry.
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