I have met this girl at my university. She has it all, a very pretty face, nice body especially legs and butt, and she is into going to clubs like I and is flirtacious. She has never told me she liked me but have did couple things to indicate it such as one time she grabbed my legs after we went to the gym. I would like to approach her and ask her out however I dont want things to get out of control and move too quickly (sleeping) if you understand what I mean.
Answers:
1. First thing- do you like her personality? If yes, then read on.
If you want it to be casual, then do some thing common, or just lead into it. If you want it to be really nice or romantic, then go to a nice, or romantic place, or even better, take her to one of her favorite places. It is very hard sometimes to tell if a girl likes u, and asking her out can sometimes go wrong, opr not the way u planned, but think of it this way, if u don't ask, then u may never no what could have been. As for going to far, u will have to control that ur self. Either talk to her, tell her right out, refuse if she tries, or something else along that line.
Also, think about her flirting, not to get to negtive with u, but if u do go out with her, and if she were to flirt with another guy, how would you feel? Think it over, and go for it.
2. if you like her and think she likes you then you need to ask her. the best way to do it is be romantic but dont embaress her. so i would say just be up front and tell her.
3. Just go up to her and ask her to go outside and I need to talk with you after class and then ask her.
4. Ask her if she wants to go with you friday night or where and when ever you want to take her. You set the day and see if it's good for her. If not then wait a few days and ask if she wants to go to something else. DON'T ask if she's busy friday night. Ask her this and you're trying too hard to find a good day and you sound desperate. Ask her in public yet quiet, calm, relaxing place, the library, walking on campus, eating lunch, what ever. Ask her on a NOT BUSY day, this way she's probably less stressed and is more positive towards things and more likely to say yes. Got a wedding or party coming up in the next week or so? Ask her to that. It's an opportunity that just happened to be there and you took it, and she can tell you've got a good eye for opportunity. If there's nothing already planned that you can take her to, just ask her to dinner. Don't give her details right away, just a time and day and you'll call her later.
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