so i am a senior in college. I have blonde hair and its pretty shaggy now I use a bit of gel too. I shower twice a day, use deodorant and colgone (sparingly) i try to talk to girls but they aren't attracted to me at all. i have a few acne scars left but not much. girls have called me disgustingly ugly before, is that the case? i have crooked teeth which i cannot ever get fixed. too much money and isnt possible. i try to talk to them but they refuse, what should i do?
should i get plastic surgery?
Answers:
1. maybe it is your personality. Make sure you arent coming off too harsh or too sure of yourself. That is not hot. Just be cool. looks arent everything.
2. If the girls you are going after only respond to your outter appearance look for a different type of girl. Don't let people judge you like that and plastic surgery isn't nessesary just love yourself. Girls are also attracted to a little self confidense.
3. idk if u put a pic on ur ques it would give more detail and more people could give u more adivse
4. I would have to see a picture of you, but in general, if a girl is so superficial she won't date you because of how you look, she's not worth it.
Don't get plastic sugery for a girl, if you make a serious decision like that do it for YOU, not them!!!
5. you are a dj maxi.. whatever, girls like djs. i think your remix is not that good. try some dancehall music not heavy metal. don do that surg bady
6. Just don't come off too strong, and NO you don't need plastic surgery. If you are a nice guy then it will all work out nice girls look for nice guys and don't let shallow girls get the best of you or kill your confidence.
7. dont get plastic surgery. then the girl would like you for something your not.
8. Since you're a senior in college, I think you should proof read what you just wrote and try to make it more understandable so girls will understand what you are trying to say.
By the way, don't get plastic surgery. Don't be a "plastic"
9. maybe put a pic on and i could help u out more. but, maybe it's not just ur looks, maybe they don't like ur personality. Just so u know, it's bad to shower 2 times a day, it's over-drying on your skin and hair, maybe that's one reason..?
10. First of all, no. Don't get surgery. Too expensive and it might backfire on ya.
Secondly, just be yourself. That's all you can do. Also, don't worry so much. You'll find someone who'll like you the way you are.
11. If a girl says those type of things to you she isn't worth you're time.. Don't 'look' for love, let it come to you.. It seems like the less you worry about it, the more you'll be yourself and without that worry over your head you'll seem a lot more confident. Before you go out and get plastic surgery, consider getting a hobby.. And if you already have one, spend some time doing that.. Anything that can build confidence because CONFIDENCE IS SEXY and if your around things you like you could meet girls with a likewise interests?! :D
12. Girls can be really superficial and mean.
Maybe you ar coming on too strong or something..
Or maybe they can't see the real you cuz they are too obsessive about your physical appearance.
Someone will love you just the way you are.
You just have to be patient.
13. Straight teeth are pretty important. Braces may be expensive ($4,000) but if you have a happier life aren't they worth it? I'm being serious now. Also, spend a little more money and get a good haircut. This is crucial. This is called making the best with what you have. There is someone for everyone and you are not going to get plastic surgery! And lastly, get a book on self esteem. Read about building yourself up for who you are....and believing in yourself. Some say this new one called "Secrets" is pretty good. I want you to know you are cool for who you are and a few minor adjustments are on the way. Good luck my friend.
14. no! please do not get plastic surgery.
it's good you care about your looks in a way, but remember it's not about the looks but who you are inside. i'm serious when i say that. try not to be so self concious about your looks (girls dont just want someone with good looks-- it's about the inside). however, the girls you talk to might be realllyyyy superficial (i'm not sure there wasnt enough info). try not to look nervous when you talk to them-- a great starter is a compliment like "nice shirt" or something you really like on them/what they're doing. try not to dive in really fast and right away when talking to them-- keep it slow and steady. you have every day to get to know her better! Maybe at the end say "Well, nice talking to you" and smile at her wen yuo see her later
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15. First of all, don't get plastic surgery! You just need to have a good self image. you sound pretty attractive. Before anyone can like you you have to like yourself. So accept yourself for who you are. Be nice to people and don't try too hard to get girls. If you look like you are trying too hard girls will not want to go out with you as much. If there is a girl that you like that you see on a regular basis (if you have classes together or something like that.) then smile at her for a few days, then go up to her and ask her about something like the reading or homework that you have for that class. Then ask her to study with you and just keep it at a friends basis. After a while drop hints about dates or ask her to a movie that you are goint to with your friends so it's not a date date but you can somewhat break the ice of asking her out. Just ask her out after that and she will probabls say yes.
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