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Do you really believe that you didn't mean to cheat?!?!?!?

   
Same questions all the time. I didn't mean to cheat. It just happened. I am so sorry that I cheated. Come on.......I must be in a bad mood tonight, but there has never been a time that a penis has fallen into my vagina when I didn't mean for it to. Do you really believe that when someone cheats that it was an accident?!?!?!

Answers:

1. I TOTALLY agree!! If it was an accident it is one that could have been prevented. Some where along the way. I think the accident is getting caught. ^j^ I have also heard " I got carried away" My question is don't you know how to put the breaks on. They Just LIE!!!!! I must be in a bad mood too.

2. I agree with you 100%. Even if you're so drunk you can't see straight you know if you're having sex with someone who isn't your husband. To me there's no excuse ever to cheat. If you're not happy and want to sleep with other people do you spouse the courtesy and the respect of getting a divorce first.

3. What you need to accept is the simple fact that the easiest person for each of us to fool is ourselves.

4. Hell no! Its never an accident. A dumb decision, but not an accident. I hate when people make lame excuses for their actions.

5. I agree also!!

6. I agree. People are not sorry for cheating, they're sorry for getting caught.

7. Well there was this one time there was oil on the ground and there was this girl walking by me.Seriously the answer is no,people cheat on purpose and their just sorry they got caught.If somebody cheats on you get out of the relationship.

8. 'accidents' happen when you aren't paying attention. To cheat requires attention. Therefore, cheating is NEVER an accident.

9. Hell no. I have been a cheater in the past and I meant every bit of that. I wish I hadn't hurt the guy. One did slip in one day, but we were naked, laying on the bed, and kissing. LOL

10. lol I agree...its never an accident...and they could've stopped at anytime as well. Or they use the lame excuse 'I was drunk' or 'it didn't mean anything'

11. i made a similar statement before here on YA, the whole thing with cheating and accident or even it being a mistake is way out there. its a choice someone makes to cheat, the only accident to them is the fact that their partner found out about it.

12. I don't believe it was an accident but I do know that people can and do make mistakes (speaking from experience). A lot of times people get into situations that are hard to get out of and sometimes one thing leads to another. If alcohol is involved, people do things that they normally would never do as well.

13. heck no but when they end up with HIV that will not be an accident. No self control. none of yall cheaters, liars, sneks back stabbers. then of course you always want the person you cheated on back. later gator. stay with that scank. yeah i'm hatin