i am really jealous of my best friend.
she has more friends than me, is more popular, prettier, skinnier,taller,smarter, and anything else that you could think of.
i hate this feeling of envy...
what should i do?
Answers:
1. SABATOGE
2. YES. YOU ARE JEALOUS,BUT I THINK SOMETIMES WE ALL WISH WE COULD BE LIKE OR BE SOMEONE ELSE..
3. What should you do?
Nothing.
P.S: There is always going to be someone better than you, and better than that someone whom you think is better than you. You should accept who you are and enjoy your life.
4. KILL HER!! jk. well just tell her how you feel. You shouldnt feel bad about yourself cause everyone is human and everyone has a problem.
5. i have the same prob! its life hun.
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6. count your blessings.
maybe a friend in the background is just as envious of you.
im sure your friend has her share of negative traits. you just dont know about them.
7. get over it, its really not as important as you're making it. Be you and allow her to be her.
8. You could find a new friend who is inferior to you
9. Stop being friends with her.
You aren't a real friend if you envy her.
10. PRAY FOR ENLIGHTENMENT AND EAT MORE PEANUT BUTTER
11. make yourself all that stuff. study more, wear makeup, lose weight, talk to other people, host parties, etc...
12. After all she is YOUR Best friend.
You are lucky.
13. Then I don't think she's your BEST friend. ;]
14. u should do the mean girl routine like in the movie, Mean Girls
15. Feel happy - this wonderful girl wants to be friends with you, so she must think youre pretty special too.
Also, realize nobody has it that good. Even people who look like they have it all rarely do. And appearances dont matter as much as true friendship and being a good person does, especially later in life.
16. Try and make friends with your friend's friend (for some reason I don't think that made sense :P)
17. everyone has a talent ,u should ask urself what are ur skills ...believe me if she's with u,that means that she likes u dear...^_0
18. Pick up some new hobbies... Then youll be better than her at somethings.
19. get over it love.
Live your own life. 10 years from now she will probably be a drug addicted pro and you will be happy and successful if you live your own life.
20. Oh man....I dont wanna be rude....but how you can have the feeling for your "best friend" that will never happen if you are a truly friend, i love my friends and I'm so happy to see them sometimes better then me.... wow!!! I dont know what else to say.... try to be you and dont envy nothing please I'm sure you are a pretty and nice person inside if you wana be
21. you need to quit comparing yourself, there will always be someone more popular, better looking, richer, thinner, a faster gun. etc etc. You are you
Learn to like you and the rest comes
22. We all feel jealous at some point in our life. Its human nature, we always want we don't have. I bet someone else is jealous of you, because u have what she/he doesn't have.
23. Im sure you'll be better in the end. Last year I felt the same why about my friend, now its totally reversed. All the guys like me, and everyone says Im pretty, skinny, and smart. This probably will happen to you too.
24. girl plz, EVERYONE i mean everyone looks at a person and envys then at least a little. so just look at the positive side of yourself and dont worry about that girl cuz she ply prepy which i know i h8 preps so just be yourself and dont worry about her jsut live life and have fun
25. don't take it out on your friend. don't tell her either - you are a different person from her - just try and remember that - but if this friendship is really taking a toll on you - maybe you should take a step back and evaluate if you want to be "best" friends with her
26. really this is a hard question to answere because there isnt a right answere but dont let this come between your friendship all of theese things you can do things about loose weight be nice to people except pretier and skinner and im sure your very smart. I hope this helped
27. Sounds corny, but be the best you, you can be. Find your own way and people will gravitate to you. I use to be the same way. Lived in the shadow of my Cheer Leader Captain, Strait A, Great Parents, Best Friend. Moved away and I did me. Turns out I am pretty damn great to other people. You are probably GREAT TO HER.
28. There are always going to be things that you don't like about yourself. There are always going to be things that you're friend doesn't like about herself. I'm sure you have some things that she doesn't, but stop counting her blessings and comparing them to your's. You should just stay confident.
29. i think you should still be her friend and jest ignore those quealties cus u are jest as good as she is everything u said once u get somewhere else u'll be jest like her
30. maybe you can talk to your friend and ask her some questions and stuff so u can act a little more like that
and you are probably more popular Than you think
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