I have been going out with a man for six months! He is 34 and I am 22. He says he loves me and thinks im stunning but when it comes to intimacy or sex he completely avoids it but he lets me do oral sometimes! help me! is he a weirdo? he should be thankful he's goin out with a wee lassie!
Answers:
1. Going out does not mean married. Some people do not want to have sex until they are married. You should not force him to. Just enjoy the relation and save sex for until you are married.
What happens if you get pregnant and then you guys break up? You aren't married, so he doesn't have to stay by your side.
Listen to your brain, not your hormones.
2. Have you ever had a good sexual relationship with him (i.e., early on)? If you did, and he's no longer interested in sex with you, he's probably over you.
3. Maybe he has a performance problem and doesnt want to admit it. There is only one way to find out. Ask him.
4. call me i will snog ya =)
5. Six months and no sex? There must be something wrong him. Maybe it's time to look for someone else, someone who has a sex drive comparable to yours...
6. Sounds like he is controlling the relationship the way he wants it.
This is why I say no sex ata ll for a yr and a half until you REALLY know the person and marry them first.
YOU asked if he was a weirdo, this tells me you arent sure and you are giving him head not knowing what he really is.He may be gay,or he may just be weird.Be thankful you arent pregnant with his kid right now.Stop the sex all together and get to know him before you really mess up lassie.
7. He is probably gay.
8. maybe he dosent wanna do it untill u get married or sumthing...
9. Oh Hell No....If he can't do you then stop doing him....And see what happens after that....You deserve to be satisfied not just him.....
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