I haven't had a girlfriend in a year and a month, I'm still getting over my heart being broken by unfaithfulness. I've had some pretty close encounters, but nothing yet. But that's a whole nother story.
I'm in ROTC in college, and there is girl that I am just fascinated by. She looks so cute in uniform, and she is tough as nails on the field. She can do everything just as well as I can. And it's so adorable when she gets dirt on her face when we are crawling through the forest.
We somehow always get paired up either in pairs or in groups together in ROTC, whether in the same transportation vehicle, the same PT group, or simulating combat with battle buddies, but we never really talked or had a conversation, just saying "Hello" and that's it.
I need your help! She is so cute, and I just want to get to know her!!!
Thanks in advance, all advice is greatly appreciated!
Answers:
1. sounds like she would like paintball....ask her, if she likes it, take her
2. Hay just do what comes to mind. Whatever you would do with anyother girl that you would want to know. You got that you have similar intrest ROTC already pullin for yu. And hay I know you just want to start by getting to know her but when my girlfriend and I want to talk somtimes we just go out and spar and we find that we learn the most about eachother while just spending time and not trying to focus complete atention on it. So for you same PT group possably jogging or sparring just dont let hertoss you around to much.
3. WHAT ARE U WAITING FOR!?!?!?clearly u are getting open shots to her but u seem to keep siking ur self out stop overthinkng about wat to say an jus man up flow with it take a breath with clear thoughts in the mind and go for it.u have nothing to lose but only to gain!!if u let this chance pass by u ur only gunna live with regret an if nex tim comes around sam situation u would b able to handle it in a different way an learn from experiences.much luck n clear mind
4. She sounds like a tough cutie, which is a very nice choice, I might add. I would go with, as stated earlier, asking her out to something that most girls would be too sissy to do - like paintball or maybe even wrestling a little ways down the line?
But as far as initiating contact, there's only one way, bud. Ya gotta strike up a conversation with her. But don't overthink it. Just try to talk about anything; if she's interested as well, then she'll manage to find a way to keep the convo going. And really, just start talking about completely random **** if you've got nothing. Anything is better than awkward silence when you first start talking to someone.
5. just spend more time if youre available talking with her. Conversation on your common events and share more fun & even experiences both of you gone thru.........Later on she will surely approach you for something and mind you ....youll just be amazed many things already been talk about and youre already buddies ...Start from there but never show first your personal interest...........just let her feel youre behind her & youre somebody she can rely on anytime.............God Bless ......
6. ask her to go for a run with you
7. Do it when your not in uniform. Try to get her after class and tell her that you would like to go for coffee sometime.
8. buy her a vodafone. Network follows wherever you go!!!!!!!!!!
9. Hey.
You should just throws some smiles, good manners and make sure she notices you etc.
Also a little conversation won't hurt anyone?
Start with Hi, how are you?
And you'd be surprised how far that leads.
Good luck.
10. Put on a monkey suit and do a dance for her.
11. Ask her if she prefers giving or receiving orders. That will be a nice ice breaker.
12. TALK TO HER AND TAKE IT SLOW DONT RUSH ANYTHING OR U MIGHT SCARE HER NOT TO BE MEAN BUT TAHT CAN HAPPEN AND THAN UR HEART DIES AGAIN
13. Permission to ask you out ma'am. *while saluting and staring straight over her head.
14. Don't do it. You'll end up making it hard for her in the ROTC training because they'll call her a sl*t if she goes out with any of you guys. Just like in the actual military, they tend to categorize women as sl*ts or b*tches. It sucks but that's how it is.
15. Well, all your chances are there.. why don't you initiate the first move after all, your nearer. You dont need to ask the help of your friends or anyone. Be nice to her and try to be friend. Am sure she will be very accomodating. Hurry up before it get's away.
16. Well it sounds like you're not in the friendship zone and can easily move in the romantic zone. The best way for you to break the ice is just ask her how her day is going. It's harmless conversation starter and use that to talk about other things like your goals in the ROTC, favorite music, etc.
If you get a succint answer to your question, then throw in a starter topic like "What's your favorite part of ROTC, or the program?" The key is draw out her conversation and listen.
17. Option 1: You're going to be a leader of people. Take some direct action. Ask her out for a cup of coffee after the drill.
Option 2: Compliment her on her performance and ask her to explain something to you that she does better than you.
Option 3: Throw a pizza party and ask her to attend with some friends.
Any of the above will get her attention.
And don't measure her against your last girlfriend or you'll blow it.
18. You can write a short note address to her that you want to have a date with her in order to get to know her more. If you have no address then ask your instructor to give it to you or if not when you meet her again for your next ROTC be brave to go near her and ask if you could talk to her after your ROTC. You can use other possibilities if you really want to meet her.
Try and good luck!
19. Send her this link:
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